I used to ask, why is life different? Some people get richer and richer and become winners in life, while others end up in poverty and never get over it? What could have caused this? What’s the difference between the brains of the rich and the good? Later, I observed and contacted some outstanding and successful people around me, mainly including the CEO of Internet giant enterprises, the boss who earns one million yuan per year in physical entrepreneurship, the Internet celebrity who earns ten million yuan per year in online content entrepreneurship, the designer who sells goods in online entrepreneurship, and the second generation of rich people who have enough money to eat, wear and live. After summarizing, I found some good habits in them. Since there are so many good habits, and everyone has their differences, I will not list them one by one here (we can communicate privately with friends who are interested in them). In this article, I will first say the most universal, core, key and essential point, that is: learn and keep learning. I believe many friends have the same feeling, such as entering the boss’s office, the first thing you see is a large bookshelf full. Have you ever wondered, bookshelf is for decoration, fill a facade? Why do they like reading books so much? So fond of learning? Pretending to be a front is only a rare case. Most of them like reading because it is the lowest cost, but the benefits are huge. Low cost, needless to say, a book dozens of dollars, e-books as long as a few dollars, eat a malatang money, you can get the opportunity to learn knowledge. The payoff is huge. It’s beyond imagination. Through learning (and by learning I mean not just reading books, but also extensive input, deep thinking, and practice), they acquire superior cognitive abilities, become more flexible, and solve problems more efficiently than anyone else. For example, he can be very knowledgeable and open in vision. He can know more than ordinary people, see deeper and better in his mind. He can often have colleagues and friends come to him for help. ➤ He can see right in the right head and come up with new ways to improve his ability to solve problems. ➤ Have strong working ability and emotional intelligence, personal influence is enough, can win the popular mind, get higher career position and identity. ➤ Good at summarizing the review, often spontaneous recall, reflection on their shortcomings, how to improve, so the work report can always catch the focus. ➤ He or she will come to know what he or she wants and how to get it. He or she can foresee obstacles and solutions in advance. ✔ Positive energy is very good, always positive optimistic view of everything around, encounter things do not be discouraged, do not feel inferior, the courage to face the difficulties to solve it. ✔ Humble, well-bred, few shreds scold the street and other unelegant words and behavior. . Believe it or not, all of the above (and others I haven’t mentioned) are the result of learning. Yes, just learning can make us stronger and stronger. In addition, through the accumulation of long-term learning, skill attributes will continue to strengthen, personal growth is like exponential growth, strength level is getting higher and higher, all aspects of the benefits are considerable. For example, when you become more valuable, your earning power will increase dramatically. Making money is not only a bonus, but also a reward for your sense of accomplishment and social recognition. For this, Maslow’s need theory is very clear, this principle is applicable to everyone, when we are satisfied with material needs, we will pursue higher order needs to meet, such as social recognition, personal value realization, etc. If you want to have the wealth and status of successful people, become like them first. Learn from their good habits and make them your own. Learning is a common habit of most successful people, and they all hold a lifelong learning attitude, firmly believe that learning is endless, and constantly upgrade themselves. So learn. Although learning is a lonely thing, but stick to it for a long time, I believe we will be completely changed, get the opportunity to change our fate. As for how to study? I’ll have a feature article later, so keep an eye on it.
About the author: Chen Xiaojie is interested in sharing cognitive learning experience based on personal real experience. 7 years of professional experience as a brand planner, good at brand planning, copywriting, personal brand building. Public account name: chenxiaojieJane, ID: chenxiaojieJane.