The following photo should look familiar to old fans. It was taken at a party with some friends in Hangzhou at the end of last year, when I wrote an article. Today, a year later, another friend’s house has been delivered, and our annual tradition of having dinner together in a new home has continued.

These friends in the photo are all friends I have known since I came to Hangzhou. Five years is not too long or too short, and all the things I did during my internship seem to be just yesterday.

This year, we all experienced a lot and changed a lot. We talked a lot when we got together. When we went home, we still felt a little bit left.

While chatting, I looked out of the window at the setting sun and the tall buildings retreating, and my heart was filled with emotion. The following copywriting was basically what I wanted at that time, and I hurriedly wrote it down as soon as I got home.

Friends are of great changes over the years, they one by one to buy their own house, also warmly invited us to dinner, remember I am 24 years old at the beginning of the article is still in confusion, I’m not sure if it will choose to stay in hangzhou, will spend such a large sum of money to buy a house in hangzhou, but under their influence, I also is considering a lottery, Because I found that there was no job suitable for me in my hometown, and the salary of most posts could hardly support my hobbies. Besides, with the financial burden of my family at present, only in big cities could I have better treatment and opportunities.

They affected me more than this, there are so many thing that impressed me, like my leader at that time taught me a lot of things a person, do you remember at that time, I really don’t have money to pay the rent, the circle of friends to send a dynamic to borrow money, raise together soon I will delete, on Monday I went to the company and he asked me how much difference directly face to face, He said he didn’t tell me on wechat because he was afraid I would be embarrassed. He asked me directly.

I still remember this event, not because he lent me the money, but the way he did things, he was a rough man from northeast China, very straight spoken, but careful and kind, many of his style of doing things at that time have influenced me to this day.

Ps: The host of this time has carefully organized the photos of us writing code together and having dinner together into PPT, which makes the ceremony feel full ha ha ha

I still remember that when I was writing code, I felt that the project was very difficult for a period of time, and I was very bad at writing many bugs, so I felt a bit broken and wanted to quit. It was he who told me that I had to leave now because I could not do it, which is called guilty flight or waste behavior. No one would care if I left like this. Even if you go to the next company you are still a loser, you have to make sure that you are in a company you leave will make a lot of people feel it is a pity, everyone will not give up that is successful.

And bullying and feel very grievance, he told me that we are working, our leader is, everyone is a tool, you have the reason you don’t hold the relationship between higher and lower because it is over, just say it, the other petty matter we walked, I quit, but a programmer who is generous basically wrong I apologize.

These words had a great impact on me when I was just entering the workplace, and led me to avoid many detours.

In addition to these, they also gave me a lot of subtle influence on my life.

For example, reading books. One of the things THAT I recommend on all the streams, all the articles, all the questions is: read more books. My boss at the time told me: You can spend some money to buy books, it will give you more than you put in. So at that time, my first salary was only 1400 yuan (I worked for a week in the first month), I resolutely took out more than 200 to buy two books.

My hobby of buying books has continued to this day. I have bought more than 200 books in Dangdang and Amazon, and now I can’t put them on the shelves at home. Reading is really recommended, which is cool, and you can see the effect of cool.

For chestnuts, my 20 years of return on investment is high, many investment ideas and methods, is learned from seen in the book of the investment, I price of the stock ideas is refer to Charlie munger, my investments are seriously undervalued blue-chip stocks is reference graham, my a lot of speculation in stock a little reference for Jesse livermore, They are all great gods in my mind, and I can talk about them with you when I have the opportunity.

As for when and what to talk about, I should talk about some basic knowledge of A shares, Hong Kong and The United States stocks at most, as well as their own harvest and pit.

I certainly won’t recommend everyone to buy what stock to buy what fund, the first point because I think this year can earn so much, luck is a very big reason, liquor, new energy this is my heavy warehouse last year, understand all understand, there is a part of luck in it. The 2nd is because recommend a stock to break the law, and the stock itself has to earn have compensate, the capital of each person is different ending also is different, millet I carried a year just solution is covered, doubled again now, at the highest time once deficit 60%.

Now as for love, friends agree that I’m not suitable for fall in love, to tell the truth I now also don’t know at this stage itself will not suitable for fall in love, in the real world knows me knows that I this person character is very skin, skin very much the kind of skin, and I’m very naive, I also can feel a bit childish, I’ve dated three girls before and they all dumped me, mostly because they thought I was childish.

It may seem to everyone that I am mature and capable of mastering many things like family, career and we-media, but I am still in the state of college (or primary school) in terms of personality and emotion.

And Aobing old color criticized, I with the side of the beautiful girl get along with a long time easy to have a good impression (Aobing behavior), but I basically will immediately dispel the idea that they want to be in love with friends, because the other party looks down on me, and I also think we are better friends.

Now I go to work day after day, read books, write articles, rest time is seriously compressed, falling in love is a little too luxurious, but a long life alone occasionally feel lonely and a little expectation, in short, everything is good as fate.

By saying so much about the influence of my friends on me, I want to express the importance of the surrounding environment. When you are surrounded by friends who are thoughtful and thoughtful, you will be influenced by them and you will grow up quickly.

Last week in the group, I diss some friends of the technical communication group 19 group, unlike other group communication technology, will only call water group in the group all day long, one of the friends replied the following sentence.

I just want to say: indeed.

Just two years after graduation, what I see is that those who are motivated and have been working hard will get better and better, and those who are willing to be mediocre will become more and more mediocre. Of course, the road is chosen by themselves, and everyone has different goals, so how to make themselves comfortable. But for me, I really can’t do self-indulgence.

In my family, we all know what conditions I need to buy an apartment, a car or anything I want to buy, but my family basically cannot support me. Of course, it is not my parents’ fault at all. I think it is amazing that my parents can come out of the mountains in Guizhou and take me with them to support me through college.

Is also the reason why I always spell trouble I don’t want to let my parents continue to food rice, cooking, don’t want to myself when I’m 30 years old can’t afford to buy a house to also complain that the home support, more don’t want the other half followed the tour I’d like to go out after a swim are entangled with funds, the risk of facing layoffs in the company and is behind a lot of the economic crisis.

When I was in Dachang, there were a lot of things I didn’t like. Late nights, pressure, system, capital squeeze and so on, so why DID I give up so much money and factory hard offer before job-hopping? But for many people, it is indeed an opportunity, a platform, a place where you can buy a house and a car in your city. Many of them are just as unhappy with the current environment as I am, but they are all persevering in their efforts. I think the purpose is to make themselves have choices in the future and their partners dare to choose you.

Well, it’s a happy thing to get together with friends, but when it comes to the topic of life, it’s heavy, but after all, you’re young. You can’t be young if you don’t pursue your ideals.

May we cling to our ideals and be pure in the present.