“Live up to the time, the creation of non-stop, this article is participating in 2021 year-end summary essay competition”

preface

I graduated in 2016 in 1991, and this year is the real year of 30. In fact, this summary article can not be said to be the summary of 2021, it can be said to be the summary of this work for several years, but there are many changes in these two years.

I have been working in this company since my internship. The whole company is a campus, and the environment is like a miniature university. It has its own staff dormitory, canteen, gym, everything is fine. Internship directly to the company, there is no transition to the society, also do not experience rental, crowded bus subway and other common graduates painful problems.

At ordinary times, everything can be basically solved in the company, and I will not be exposed to the sun and the wind at work (a few steps away). I will work overtime in the evening, and go to the gym in the dormitory when I don’t work overtime, and occasionally read books and watch movies.

Weekend nothing will carry a bag to Shanghai everywhere to stroll around, walk.

It’s a really comfortable pace. It’s like going to college, except it costs money. There’s money to be made, and there’s nothing to spend right out of college. Slowly a kind of warm water boil frog like state, also did not think to plan life. Once a person has been in a certain state for a long time, they fall into their comfort zone and don’t want to change or bother to change.

Time came to 2019, and there was a change in my life. I had been single for a long time, but now I had a partner. The whole state of life was broken, and I began to get used to the presence of another person in my world, and began to think about the future. I am a secular person, these real problems of buying a house to get married or can not escape.

Bought a house, 2020

“What family can’t afford four and a half million right now?”

I’ve been in Shanghai since I graduated, and I’ve stayed in the same company ever since.

Is before hand didn’t have enough money to buy a house so I didn’t think, now have the object had to be taken into account, thought of suburbs of Shanghai, kunshan, suzhou and other places, but I can accept the down payment shall not exceed the calculated under 50 w, gave up (my daughter-in-law also suggest let me buy a 50 flat house in Shanghai, I refused, for the rest of your life have to do is to think about in life, actually I can’t accept, Would rather go to a first-tier and second-tier city to buy a normal-size house).

Think after choose the provincial capital of hefei, although the center position isn’t cheap, but it was still enough, 2020 elder brother elder sister find friends and classmates borrowed some money, and ask a favor of hefei mediation Chou Chou for house, let him recommend several village, and then find a field to watch the past weekend I and daughter-in-law both compared the several residential price, The decision was made the next day after a night of deliberation (due to policy reasons, the daughter-in-law settled down).

Everyone’s choice is different. Some want to live in a big city, even if the house is small, and some can’t stand it. According to their own needs to choose, do not regret

In fact, I was lucky, the family can not give much help, but as a programmer, just graduated a few years to save some silver, barely enough to clean up their own

2021 married, baby on the road

At the beginning of the year to discuss when to do the wedding in the hometown, rural wedding is to go through the motions more simple. My wife and I discussed most things, including our wedding day.

I am more lucky, the daughter-in-law is not so much requirements, in fact, there is no what bride gift (voiceover: some in name), in fact, after getting the certificate my salary was handed over, because of the use of her card to return the mortgage, so I have how much money daughter-in-law is clear. But does not enough money in the hand over the years these things consumption, I also don’t want to let my parents, because I got married to buy a house, a age everywhere to borrow money, so they need the money is borrowed my own (I 😄 daughter-in-law didn’t opinion, it’s good to pony), through our operations, mother-in-law there has in the past, even if are able to marry.

It’s a record of my own loans, and I’m crossing them off every time I pay them off, and I still have $10,000 left until I get paid this month.

So things are smoothly over, and September to get their own house, baby has come on the way. My pressure is coming up, how to do, ordinary people can only learn to improve technical ability, to get a higher salary, so I came to the Nuggets

Start technical writing

Day arch a pawn have no do, don’t donate tang eventually into the sea

Writing articles is not necessarily how many people to read, but to record their learning process, but also a summary of the learning content, in the future when you encounter problems or need to turn over.

I just graduated when will often study, but are aimless, slowly lost interest. Until the middle of this year, various things piled up and made me feel a lot of pressure. These things made me feel that 💰 was not enough. I not only paid out the money saved in the past few years, but also borrowed money from relatives and friends. Since then, I have loans on my back, debts outside, and I think there are many places where I need money in the future, and I also have some desires, so the pressure comes up.

But can not like before casually learn, so ready to insist on the way to force their own learning, registered a public account and nuggets began to learn,

The public account is too closed, there is no flow, nuggets and small gifts, there are all kinds of groups can communicate with each other, or there are a lot of feedback, not so boring, it is difficult to continue.

My goal is to urge myself to study, and it is easy to participate in activities, so I will not write for a variety of activities.

Results: I have written three series of columns in total, which can be regarded as learning the advanced knowledge of mysql in half a year. At the same time, I have summarized the main problems I usually encounter as follows.

Just graduated brothers, keep learning, even if not every day to learn, but to hold on, don’t like me to retreat to the point of no retreat to wake up, although they say that as long as learning is never too late, of course, the earlier the better.

Reverse snowball

When a person slowly grew up, he has taken more and more responsibilities in the secular, grows on the slopes of snow ball, pushing forward to hard work, even stop to a lot of effort to maintain don’t let it fall down, fall when one day, everything becomes (were) poor ability to resist risk.

Ordinary people have to snowball backwards, there’s no way to do it (unless you’re single, regardless of conventional wisdom, and alone, which I’m sure not many people have the courage to do). If we want to make it easier to push forward as the snowball gets bigger in the future, we need to make ourselves stronger and more profitable, not just this single programming technique.

For contemporary spiritual opiates

Where did the time go — all in short videos

My spiritual opiates are short videos, tiktok kuaishou.

I also downloaded Douyin before for the purpose of Posting some videos of my own fitness, but I mostly watched the videos. I haven’t seen it for an hour. I haven’t seen it for a long time. It’s okay to watch these short videos. Once you start watching them, you can’t stop watching them, and the time is quickly wasted.

Short videos are so addictive that I consider myself a pretty good person for self-control. In order not to waste time on this, I have uninstalled all the short video apps such as Douyin, Weibo and Bilibili (originally for learning purposes). For video learning, I will use Bilibili on the Web side. At present, there is only Zhihu on the mobile phone, and short videos like Douyin have started to appear on it. Maybe one day, we will say goodbye to it and move to the Web if necessary.

If you can’t beat it, uninstall it. Bye.

Adhere to the movement

Since I became a programmer, exercise is no longer for health, but for survival

Since college, I have been doing exercises two or three times a week on average. If I don’t exercise for a long time, I always feel something is wrong. I have been thin since I was a child, and I have a weak stomach and a thin person. I insisted on exercising since college in order to improve my physique, and after work in order to survive.

Programmers often work overtime is a day, mental work is also very serious, occasionally exercise sweating or very comfortable, but also can relax the spirit.

Compared with other industries, the Internet is indeed a high salary for ordinary people. They can save a sum of money in a few years after graduation, but they also have a high degree of physical fatigue. The health is the capital of the revolution. Brother, take care of your health (don’t earn money and be sent to the hospital, hair transplant).

Only by keeping fit can the boss work more hours so that he can afford a sports car

I love sports so much, you can’t give me the sports camera

2022 planning

Here’s a list of things you can predict to do right now, each of which is important and meaningful to keep doing.

  • !!!!!!!!! Continuous learning, continuous input, continuous output.
  • !!!!!!!!! Try to get a raise and save more money for when you come home.
  • !!!!!!!!! Weekly exercise or can not be less, to avoid middle-aged men’s paunchy.
  • !!!!!!!!! Another important thing is that the family is going to welcome a new member next year, and I’m going to learn to be a father.
  • !!!!!!!!! Next year, I hope I won’t be so indoorsy. I will accompany my daughter-in-law to go out for a walk on weekends.

Refueling, wish we can be better and better, the body times good, ability times strong, high wages

I am Mr. Ji, with output force input and continue to learn, continue to share technology series articles, as well as the whole network worth collecting good articles, welcome to pay attention to or pay attention to the public number, to be a continuous growth of technical people.