Lang e mail:
Lammel invited brother Fan, a Java graduate,
When I contacted my senior, he asked me to go back to Yiniuyun Langwo to complete the interview
So we talked for more than two hours in a familiar place,
It was quite by chance that Lammel got in touch with the elder brother.
Langmuir got Brother Fan’s phone number, which facilitated the interview
I find that the growth of my brother is a good interpretation of the famous writer Haruki Murakami’s words,
“People don’t grow up slowly. They grow up in an instant.
For Brother Fan, this “moment” was too sudden and too costly.
Next, I will let Brother Fan share with you, hoping to give you some inspiration through his story.
Once yearning: “To retire to the mountains and stay aloof from worldly affairs”
I have thought of a future life of “hiding in the woods”.
In high school, I ranked 20th in a class of more than 60 students,
I studied hard, and after a semester, my ranking didn’t improve,
I realized that “trying doesn’t seem to work” and that’s it!
After the college entrance examination, I was admitted to Chengdu University majoring in Computer and Science.
I still have a “stand aloof” attitude,
Hard work doesn’t get you anywhere, and with young parents and no pressure of their own,
He yearned for “seclusion”.
“Bad news” hit, and the sky fell
One day before graduation, I got a call from home,
Father is seriously ill.
At that time the whole person instant all meng, head a blank!
I never thought my father would fall ill,
This is undoubtedly to the poor family to increase the huge difficulties, in the face of a huge amount of medical expenses, I panic, panic
All you think about is money, money, money…
How to get the money?
It was an internship, and I wanted to go to work and make money, money, money
However, the knowledge of this major is relatively miscellaneous and much (the major belongs to the general disciplines of the university).
Development jobs are not up to par, and job hunting is often rejected.
Other jobs pay too little to support themselves
Watching my classmates choose to attend professional training classes, I also want to go, but I have no money at all, I have to earn money to support my family.
How to do? How to do?
Money, money, money, worry, worry, worry… .
Just when I was at a loss, my neighbor suggested joining the army,
The “lifeline” has appeared, the money is secured!
Because of the current national policy, college students can get full tuition refund when they graduate and become soldiers. Moreover, they can receive more than 10,000 subsidies to their families every year when they become soldiers.
So I went to the army for the money
But at first his family didn’t support his decision to join the army,
I was thin growing up, and they didn’t think I could handle the intense training of the army.
As much as I wanted to be there for my father, to take care of him, the truth is,
I have to deal with this burden. I have to have money!
I did not want to leave home at this time, but I joined the army
Now recall at that time, his immediate decision, brave enough.
During my two years in the army, I was preoccupied with my father’s illness.
My father has been receiving chemotherapy for several years and actively cooperated with the treatment, but his condition did not improve
Meanwhile, the elder brother gave birth to a child in order to give the father confidence to overcome the disease.
The arrival of a nephew was like the arrival of hope in life,
But even that didn’t keep my father,
My father left shortly after I came home from the army.
“Instant” grew up
After returning from military service, I still face a problem:
Money!
There’s also the huge cost of dad’s treatment,
What kind of work does it take to earn money?
This major, I did not learn too deeply in school, and now I have not been in contact with it for a long time, so I cannot do it.
Do other professional, oneself also can’t.
Finally, after some consideration, I decided to study systematically in the training class for my professional development. After all, money is fast in this industry.
I heard about Yuniuyun Langwo from my classmates. After field study and investigation, I decided to learn Java development in Yuniuyun Langwo (the tuition is from the retirement fee).
However, after I studied for a week, I “dropped out”!
Father is gone. (Lammel: After father’s death, brother seldom mentioned to others, but I won’t say more here.)
After dealing with my family, I joined a new class (J125) and began to study.
When my father left, I realized that I needed to take care of the family, I needed to take care of my mother.
Therefore, the period of study in Yiniuyunlongwo became the time when I studied the most.
Now hope: always with family, work smoothly
Now I work as a development team leader for a medical company,
My career plan is to develop into technical management.
In the past, I wanted to go to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but now I just want to work hard and keep my family healthy.
At present just bought a house in the lottery, in five pine, also slowly close to their goals.
Life will get better and better.
Back home last year, my aunt said my brother’s sales job was unstable.
The pay is low. Let me introduce you to some good jobs
However, I only know my industry, and most of my friends are working in IT.
I really don’t know how to recommend other professions. In addition, we also come from ordinary families with no background.
So I recommended a technique to my cousin,
In the past, there were quite a lot of people who switched careers to learn technology at the age of 27.8 in our class, and it was not too late.
Before learning, I analyzed the prospect and technical difficulty of learning Java for my cousin, and also prepared him to concentrate on learning. Then I recommended him to learn Java in Yiniu Yunlangwo.
Finally, a piece of advice for you
Lang e mail:
When you encounter difficulties in your life, if you survive it, it will be completely destroyed.
Lang Sister hope that if you encounter life is not satisfactory when like Brother Fan brave when bear, face the difficulties.
Now Brother Fan is gradually on the right track. He has bought an apartment in Chengdu and occasionally goes home to visit his family on weekends.
Life can be this simple, good job, family time.
Lang sisters wish elder brother’s love come earlier,
Ha ha, fairies, come to private chat lang Mei er, help you directly connected to the elder brother yo ~
This article is also published with the consent of the elder brother