preface

We should all be treated seriously, why do we still get all kinds of unfriendly treatment in the end! In fact, more or less we are just cannon fodder for others in certain circumstances, only when their own strength is excellent or indispensable, so naturally it will be much better.

For technical born we should be able to better understand the feelings here, in the era of the rapid development of the Internet, the strength of technical ability basically determines your height; This led to ali’s P line M line and 271 KPI assessment, relying on these things to survive the fittest; More direct view can be said to be poor ability, poor technology can leave, or even if you do not go it is difficult to get along with.

Miyazaki hayao once said: “A lot of things are predestined, like what kind of people you will meet, what kind of pain you will experience, and how you will leave the world. Nothing can change fate! “.

But I always think as long as we work hard enough, we will always be taken seriously.

The story is pure fiction and only represents my personal opinion. If there is anything wrong, please spray me

Many years ago

A friend of mine went to a company as an intern many years ago when he was a junior student. As you know, many years ago, it was very difficult to enter bat as an intern if you were not a graduate of 985 university. Therefore, I found an internship in the city where the school is located in order to make it convenient to go back and forth to the school. I thought it would be easier for him to learn so much knowledge and theory in school and win prizes in provincial competitions. He always thought that the outside world was the same as the school, and that his colleagues must be friendly with each other.

Delusion: “this practice will be plain sailing for sure, meizhizi, have salary! “.

Hope: “Through the internship in a larger company, I can see a wider world and knowledge field”.

Expectation: “Relying on their own efforts, can be recognized by others”.

Despair: “Not all fantasies can come true.”

He successfully entered a branch of a certain degree. To tell the truth, he must have been excited at that time. It is really not easy to get an internship in a university that is not a first-class one. And the salary at that time compared with the salary of a university teacher is also considerable, that night he was excited did not fall asleep; Fantasizing about being able to flex your muscles at work; Looking forward to their integration into the collective as soon as possible; Get along with your colleagues.

I think you must be very, very excited after you get your first internship offer. It is not only a test of their ability, but also a recognition of you.

After he had been in the workforce for a while, something incredible happened. His superior (a Java developer who had worked in a certain headquarters for 6 years) secretly talked to him, saying, “Why don’t you leave your job and go back to school? I want to bring in my former colleagues. “

That’s right. That’s what the leader said to his face. He was confused. His brain was buzzing and confused, and he couldn’t utter a whole word; To be honest, it’s a lot to take in when you’re a student who hasn’t graduated yet. He thinks he’s doing a good job in the company.

• Every morning half an hour in advance to the company, to the station, sorting things boot, open the editor, learning, look at the source code
• Every work task can be completed normally, and overtime to deal with a lot of business needs
• Every night is also a late one of the company
• For the emergence of new technology will take the initiative to learn and apply

What went wrong? He was puzzled, puzzled every day; But he never answered his questions in front of his superiors. He always wondered if the extra hours wouldn’t dissuade him if he just took on more demands and tasks.

Because of the intervention of the department manager in the middle, this matter is finally home, do not know. The manager and other colleagues gave him a good evaluation, and they soon got to know each other and often ate together to work overtime. The manager after everyone said so, but also saved me; He was grateful to his Java friends. It was then that he discovered that there was no justice; There are no fraternizing superiors and subordinates; Nothing is more important than your own interests.

No, no, no; He looked at his colleagues, Java, PHP, UI, front-end partners to support him, suddenly found that we are worthy of being taken seriously.

I knew I heard him cry that night, the first time I’d seen him cry in four years. And pretend to be so strong, think everyone didn’t hear.

later

When he officially graduated, he immediately went to the first-tier cities we say, north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Came to Shanghai to cast: 2345 browser, Tencent, Ali, iqiyi, 37 mutual entertainment, micro Alliance and so on it is a pity that part of the resume (later listen to their company said that the sender is too much direct brush education) did not pass, cast after hastily received; Then I chose one of the companies to work. It happened to be the first anniversary of The company in the same year. It was a pity that his company was near it.

After the internship, he knew better that as a fresh graduate, he should not stop but keep moving forward. Because he knew that something similar would happen if he stopped. In fact, he is quite afraid, sometimes things have become cautious. Maybe he felt that until he developed his skills, there would always be such a scene in front of his eyes, lingering, can not afford to lose.

Here he knew huawei’s big brother for nine years and sat down to talk once; Got to know an Ali ten years Java big brother, also exchanged some; Also knew thought eight years of big sister Kingdee, they are very good. They talked about framing choices, career plans, and their own frustrations and experiences along the way. Suddenly he found that he was walking through the road they had walked, climbed the pit, so familiar taste; The original bosses are not plain sailing, but also step by step down, to their annual salary of 50W, 80W or even higher.

Participated in many technology conferences with the company in Shanghai, met many Internet guys from all over the world, and exchanged various technologies. Of course he has been listening to them, analyzing and thinking 🤔 learning their experience, how to become a great god?

With the help of the supervisor with your colleagues, this year he grew up very quickly, to see what books 📚, independent thinking, learning algorithm and in-depth source research, try to write in c extension, learned the deployment of the cluster configuration optimization and so on, these are benefited from his leadership and ops colleagues, are happy to know miss the HR of the sisters, Provide answers to various questions on entry. It was not until later, when I was ready to leave For Guangzhou and had my last meal with them, that I asked one question: “What about me? Am I getting any better at it? “

The boys whispered in my ear: “You are a great guy, you are worth making friends with and being taken seriously, judging by your work attitude, your ability to learn and your personality.” This year, he worked for a whole year. After hearing these words, his heart was a little stirred. It was good, at least I learned how to integrate into the group and get along with everyone better.

He went there once a week to enjoy the night scenery of the Bund, which filled him with longing for the city.

A few years later

He later went to Guangzhou and Shenzhen, Tencent, netease, Byte, Baidu, Meituan and so on finally have the opportunity to choose, this time not so fragile as imagined, will be disS because of poor technology. Then, in the company, there are still many low-tech people who are still doing well without being puA, which definitely deepens his doubt, but he doesn’t care too much about it.

In fact, in a big company, you will have a better chance to stand out and be recognized by others in some way; For example: You are in a project

• What was introduced?
• What does it solve?
• What does it bring?
• What does it improve?

As long as you continue to improve yourself, you can have a better solution to solve the problem, then your efforts will always be rewarded (as long as you do not encounter petty superiors).

Over the years, he has come to understand that from the beginning we have too high expectations of what others will do to us. Not facing up to their own problems; If we really want to be taken seriously, we must first have our own strength; The Internet is more or less a technocracy. If you don’t believe me, you can recall your work history and experience.

In short, the early may be hard will be sad, but as long as the efforts to pay to grow, after many years look back and think: ORIGINALLY I have been taken seriously.

He loved it, not just for the growth it gave him, but for the recognition it gave him. Of course, prefer the feeling of winter: small short sleeve + small thin pants

conclusion

Although I don’t know many development leaders in Digging gold, MAYBE I’m not good at communicating with others, so I rarely interact with other big leaders. Although I don’t know them, I have read their books, and I like them because I am serious: ① Kid 4919 bought his book “How mysql Works”. Teacher Shen Jian pushed it hard, and it has a sense of rhythm. (2) Programmer Xiao Grey, bought his Comic Book Algorithm 2, is very interesting (although still a little…) (3) Po is the front-end leader, because I used to like to toss front-end, from Angular to Vue, I am the front-end scum, toss after a few years on the back end and algorithms to go, but the article is still very helpful, at least I will go to see a backend from time to time.

How do you feel about this kind of treatment in the workplace?

Well, thank you for reading this far; I am not only a developer, but also a fan of advertorials. I look forward to more opportunities for us to communicate.