There are very few people who care about you, so just be yourself

Why write this article today? Ah, or idle no matter made abuse ah. Today, after running a batch of Yuehe Lake tired, I took a sip of milk, and suddenly I thought of a piece of information I saw on Weibo before:

I suddenly saw an emotional micro blog, said that a little sister and her boyfriend are playing game group CP, her boyfriend often give her takeout, each meal is no more than 10 yuan, this is a master, ha ha. Kind of wondering if her boyfriend loves her and wants to break up.

The comments below were all about how her boyfriend managed to order takeout at such a low price every time.

There are two points to note here:

  • It’s impossible to judge whether her boyfriend loves her
  • The focus is not on whether her boyfriend loves her, but on how to order takeout for less than 10 yuan

First of all, we can arrive at a partial, but nevertheless factual, view:

Attention to your people really very few, do their own good, do not give yourself trouble.

In fact, such examples are not in a few, for instance you are in the countryside, you cut a quite fashionable hairstyle, the person around is very idle, did not see the world, just will pay too much attention to you, have nothing to give you find a matter, the back says you how cut such hair

But what if you’re in a big city and the pace of life is so fast, what kind of haircut do you have, what kind of clothes do you wear, and everyone has no time to worry about you but is looking at their phone? Don’t have time to focus on you, just be yourself.

From the example above we can see that everyone is looking for what is good for them and the attention is not on you at all.

That’s why I feel so lonely.

You say that no one cares you, and no one will understand, because you experience, others may not have experienced, others have experienced, you may not have experienced.

When you say it, people may not want to hear it. That’s what parenting is all about.

That’s the reality.

Then, more and more, you will find it more and more important to listen to your inner self, not be distracted by the outside world, and live your life according to your steps.

Then, you will find more and more that you are stronger and less likely to complain.

Then, you’ll realize more and more that the world really doesn’t pay much attention to you.

So, just be yourself.