The reason why people worry about gains and losses is that they never forget themselves and brood over others.
He who never forgets himself will lose himself. Those who hold a grudge against others forever will be hurt more.
The road is wide, move forward separately, do not force to walk together, do not worry about.
To forget yourself, in order to influence others.
Zhuangzi said that a man should not cling to the ego and think that he should be what he is. He should forget the ego and enter into a state of emptiness. Only in this way can he see things in emptiness and create something out of nothing.
People do not forget oneself is very troublesome, easy to form a bad habit: everything is self-centered, everyone should be around him, everything should serve him. This is obviously impossible, why not forget about your easy life?
There are three main aspects to forgetting yourself:
1) Forget about your abilities
This layer is the most important, think they are very capable, will do a lot of things, and even can not close the field, and even dead tired. Chuang Tzu said, “The most able man works hard, the most wise man worries.” This is what he meant. Chuang Tzu also said, “If a man has his wisdom, the world will not be tired.
2) Forget who you are
Once a man has put on a tall hat of any kind, he tries to prove it on every occasion, and makes himself very embarrassed. There was a friend who thought he was rich, but in fact he was far from being a millionaire, just plain rich. As a result, he wrote a book on how to get rich, which was laughed at by his friends in the circle. The book was not easy to sell and the rich club would not accept him because of it.
3) Forget about your unhappiness
Everyone has troubles. The more troubles you have, the more troubles you have. If you forget your troubles, they will become smaller or even gone.
Some people have a bad life, not because society is unfair to him, but because he is against himself. Better to put down the butcher’s knife and become a Buddha.
This butcher’s knife is the shadow in my heart, it is the sharpest knife, it is easy to scrap a person, not blood.
It follows that we should forget everything about ourselves in order to live a relaxed and comfortable life. For example, a man should forget his old lover, a woman should forget her old lover, so as not to be tortured by the past, in order to have greater happiness.
Some people can’t live without a notepad, which arranges the plan for the whole day, even the whole month and the whole year. They only do things within the plan every day, forget their own things everywhere, and forget their people all the time, and turn themselves into machines.
Forget yourself to get yourself.
Get yourself and then forget yourself and hold nothing back. Oh, people get messed up and can’t get anything done when they’re doing a lot of stuff. And that’s when I said, “Show me your heart and show me your stomach.”