Starting line and glass heart
In the book Outliers, he expressed something similar: ‘Once a leader, always a leader’. But the truth is that life is a long marathon, in which there are people who quit at every stage, and the winner is not the one who starts but the few who stick it out. So in life, you need to avoid the glass heart and try to cultivate a strong heart so that you can always keep running
Talk about knowledge
- Want of knowledge, want of love, and want of rules are worse things than want of money. No money has a lifetime opportunity to acquire, lack of the three acquired the opportunity is relatively small.
- ‘Summer insects can not speak at the time of the iceman; Most of the time success depends on the level of insight rather than simple efforts; In today’s society, it’s much easier for us to expand our knowledge because of transportation information technology than it was in the past, but we still have a wall in our mind that prevents us from expanding our knowledge, and the resistance to improving our knowledge today is often in ourselves, not in the environment. (For example, we check videos and messages every day, but we can’t remember them after half a month, and it doesn’t affect us at all)
Our wisdom
The author discusses that the way of thinking of excellent people around affects his life by his own experience of making friends. If someone points you might as well first when a listener do not rush to refute, or be criticized when do not rush to grievance or explain; Try to make sense of something you don’t like. Because everyone’s way of thinking is different, learn to walk with the wise
Reject bogus workers
- Things never get done?
- Anxiety also do not see the end of the day, suspect oneself into work anxiety, things as if caught in a cycle?
- Busy every day, can not contribute to the performance in the public, in the private accumulation of growth?
If there is such a situation, it is trapped in the trap of “fake workers”. In fact, it is difficult to improve the efficiency of everyone. For example, list a todoList in order of importance and execute it in order of importance. The person who benefits from active work is always yourself.
Workplace mistakes and broken laws
- When choosing your first job is important, you should focus on the value of the job to your life development rather than the salary.
Mistakes in the workplace include:
- A job is confused with a career
- Consider yourself a guest, not a host
- The violence of language has thrown things out of order
- Failure to communicate
Break the law:
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A job is a means of making a living, while a profession is a career one must do in one’s life. Work is just to make life better (when I just graduated, I attached great importance to work. When the leaders assigned me a job, it was easy to put pressure on myself, and they also required my upstream colleagues to complete it efficiently and quickly. Later, I think about it myself. It seems to be a little perverted. I am too strict with myself and my colleagues.
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Third, always make it clear that you are not working for the company or other people, but for the overall direction of your career development. When you have this general direction in mind, you will be able to better deal with all kinds of external resistance and interference. Pay attention to long-term benefits. Take the long view.
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Be humble at all times. On the one hand, we should carefully understand the opinions of others, on the other hand, we should learn to analyze and dare to express our own opinions and views.
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The first thing to do in life is to communicate and not to do things behind closed doors
50 percent is common sense, 50 to 90 percent is technology, and 90 to 100 percent is art. You can’t jump at every stage, you can get to 90 points and you can get there with effort and you can get better than that depending on the person.
The nature of business
Every once in a while, a new business concept comes out in the world, and it turns out there’s not much left over. In fact, no matter what the concept is, the nature of business has not changed much for thousands of years.
The essence of business is to make people spend more money, not save it. For example, In the case of Teshima T-Site, masuda makes money from the real estate rents surrounding the site despite its distinctive design. For consumers, Teshima t-site creates a life circle centered around a bookstore.
Zuckerberg’s latest “metasurverse” is a solution that bundles FaceBook’s products WhastApp,Instagram, Libra and Oculus, and of course Tencent’s own version of the same concept, renamed quanzhen Internet; In fact, these are good explanations for consumers that the essence of business is to make people spend more money.
Rational investment view
“Suddenly think of” there is such a sentence ‘one to survive, two to food and clothing, three to development’ here talked about investment; But the improper investment will go bankrupt all of a sudden so we should have a rational investment view investment should be out of the mistakes
1. Myth: Precious metals are a good investment
Gold only goes up so fast during economic crises and wars that it gets little attention.
2. Myth 2: Professionals are always better at managing money than I am
Because the key to successful investing is not tactics, but adherence to some simple investing principles.
Myth 3: The more time you spend researching the stock market, the higher your returns
Trade often, the worse the return.
Myth 4: Stocks go up as long as someone buys them
When you’re in a stock that a buyer wants, it’s probably worth many times more.
Myth 5: Even if I lose money on a stock, I lose nothing if I don’t sell it
Stock indexes, when they go down, they always come back up, but when a stock goes down 50%, it needs to go up 100% to get back to its original price. In the long run, a company will eventually die, and individual shares will be liquidated sooner or later.
Myth 6: Ten cent stocks are cheap
Cheap stocks are like cigarette butts. They are sucked up and thrown on the ground. They look free.
Speak up
In communication with people we must first make clear the purpose of their speech, how to better let everyone accept the content we want to express, rather than their own ramble, play at will! Modern society has been emphasizing that eq is more important than IQ, and speaking well is a very important part of EQ, which is also something we have to learn for life!
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