Preface:
Hello everyone, I am Yifei, today we do not share dry goods, today to share with you my work experience.
I am a program girl, graduated from an ordinary university, graduated in 13 years, I like to write code, like to watch the error is conquered, like to witness that line of English into wonderful and magical things, that kind of love, is the skin become bad, ugly appearance can not stop. So I am in programmer this “road of no return” on, walk farther and farther.
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I’m a programming girl and an overtime dog
At two or three o ‘clock in the morning, the lights on the CBD office building are still shining. I take off my high heels, throw them into the trunk of my car, open the window, and the breeze blows. My mind is wide awake. Recall oneself do programmer this all the way, very hardships, also very full and beautiful at the same time, is the so-called pain and happiness. In your twenties, there is no ten years. You can see a different world whether you insist or not. Just like when the company wanted to develop a bunch of product apps, at that time, the company was constantly developing solutions, while the other side was doing hardware, I was chasing after writing software and APPS. Like smart lock APP, smart monitoring device APP and so on are my best.
The whole world of programmers, are overtime dog, I am a female programmer, is no exception. Just stepped into the society, into the company, looking at the beautiful reception sister, beautiful and moving. And then I look at myself, white T-shirt and jeans, and I feel like a yokel. And then I consoled myself, I don’t go to the public, who would look so good.
So, I did what I wanted to nest in the corner to be a greasy head dirty surface code farmer girl. I keep writing code, I keep fixing bugs, and pervert guys walk around me on the way home from work in the wee hours. The process of working overtime is boring, and unless you really love this industry, you will have to change careers at any minute, after all, boys can not endure. Of course, while it is common for programmers to work overtime, the frequency and length of overtime varies. In addition to heavy work tasks, what is more important is that customers’ demands are related to their own technical ability. I remember that several mistakes occurred in my own handling of problems.
I once had a colleague, also a girl. She complains every day about why she has to work overtime every day, why she has logic that never follows, code that never ends, and bugs that never end. So she has no time to eat properly, no time to go shopping, buy clothes, and no time to make up. Every day like a middle-aged woman, greasy face, greasy hair, and sweaty smelly clothes. In order to get rid of this dilemma, I quit my job quickly and started as a clerk. I dressed myself every day and became charming. Finally, I found a good husband and retired from the workplace to be a housewife.
A few years later, she met for coffee and still had two children. She said she wasn’t cut out for this, and she also told me she admired me, independent, strong woman, glamorous in the workplace, holding the whole room. I said, took a nap in the boy, I’m trying to learn the technical ability, rested on the boys playing games, I’m trying to learn technical skills, when they pulled my sister, I’m trying to learn the technical ability, only rapidly promote vocational ability, to counter attack, in order to have time to care skin and delicate themselves and charging. What you say is not suitable, it is not really not suitable, but want to, what you envy is just you can not insist on things, and I happened to do the extreme.
I’m a programming girl and I don’t like shopping
I am a JAVA programmer, is also a special love beautiful girl. My favorite thing in school is to go shopping with my classmates. When there is no class, we can walk for seven hours without breathing, and every time we come back with bags and bags, we are very satisfied. Later, with the aggravating of our study and the great pressure of postgraduate entrance examination, we gradually stopped going shopping and spent every day coding and learning English. For a while, we thought that if we just struggled through it, we would find jobs that were closer to home, paid well, and weren’t as busy, so we studied like crazy. We no longer had time to go shopping and buy everything online. In spite of the oil and acne, in spite of the plain clothes, even slightly ugly, long hair to the waist, a knife cut.
As a result, you work your butt off, but you don’t get the life you want. That’s programmer. There is no so-called close to home, high pay, not busy work, no matter you are sitting in the CBD office building, or sitting in the ordinary office building, you still do not stop code code, this is commonly known as code farmers. You still do not have time to go shopping, your online shopping level is getting better and better, light makeup, simple OL temperament style, 10 cm slender heel walk with wind. I drag myself home in the wee hours of the morning, collapse into bed, and wish I could lie still for the rest of my life.
But as soon as the tears fell, “Beater, beater…” , you a shock, a second to turn up. Take off makeup, wash face, apply facial mask, read a book, sleep and other alarm clock, the next day is a good time to work.
Five years ago: “XX, let’s go shopping together!”
Five years ago: “Sorry, I don’t have time to write code!”
Three years ago: “XX, let’s go shopping together!”
Three years ago: “I don’t like shopping, go on your own!”
Now: “XX, let’s go shopping!”
Now: “No, I ordered the latest brand.”
I’m a programming girl with no life
I remember eating alone, watching movies alone, eating hot pot alone for a long time, which is the highest level of loneliness. At that time, will only be immersed in the programming world, do not know how to learn to dress yourself, face the freckles and acne, crowded all crowded don’t finish a loose T-shirt and white jeans increase the schoolbag is always standard and other knowledge and business interests don’t have time to grope, to let himself in the programming world, dwarf and poor release yourself.
So, in any period of time to have a chance, I was like an ugly duckling, invisible in every party, date. It’s rare for someone to come up and say, “What do you do?” “Programmer,” there is no follow-up. I wish someone could come and say “0,1” to me.
It is a false proposition that the nature of programmer’s work is related, which makes emotional life not optimistic. People don’t know you’re a programmer until they meet you, but you give people the impression that you are. For example, the last time the fire blind date event, the story of the male protagonist is Ali’s senior R & D engineer, the original is the girl ridicule boys wearing special step to date, she said that is primary school and junior high school wear, she likes delicate boys. May be this is one of the reasons only, besides dress up besides, the girl has the TV play that chats not over, movie, go shopping, travel and so on hobby and result, programmer male can really leave programming, programming, programming… . It is very difficult to get along with the three different views.
It’s hard to find a partner for a programmer who doesn’t write code and fix bugs every day. I once read a lot of comments on the Internet about male programmers, sloppy, ugly to the next level, and more importantly, they can’t talk at all, either I talk about mine or he talks about his. I look back at myself, isn’t it the same? No make-up, no talk, no coquetry, and not enough writing in your belly will make you turn off your light.
So, do programmers deserve to be single?
I’m a programming girl who lives for herself
I’m a female programmer, and I can’t escape criticism. Can’t find a boyfriend because you are ugly? Is it because you only know how to code? Yes, that’s right. It is said that good-looking and flirtatious people are married to bosses and bosses (just kidding), but there is no denying that exquisite skin and talented soul are not comparable to shallow people.
I envy those girls who can take photos and do good food. I once imagined that I was not a programmer, but a waiter in a dessert shop. I could eat dessert and drink milk tea every day, watching people coming and going, and feel comfortable. After work, you can go shopping or watch movies with your friends. But the reality is not so, until I read a dozen women strong chicken soup books. I started to think why other people can work like a tough girl and live happily like a girl.
Balancing life and work can be a struggle for programmers who work late into the night, but it’s not without pitfalls. I – a female programmer, hands-on experience.
A: Why do you spend so long working overtime? Heavy work tasks, customer demand. Actually the main or on their own capabilities, if your logical thinking ability is not strong, can learn from the boy, usually their logic is strong, than we have a global idea, even when you are responsible for their own development module, you should first understand the global project, was responsible for the function of the module and demand, as well as the relationship with other related module, in addition to this, Knowledge of system architecture also needs to be learned so that you don’t have to spend too much time fixing bugs.
Of course, girls may be less logical, but they are usually better at carefulness and communication than boys, which will help us to understand the needs of our customers and provide them with high-quality products. Any gorgeous transformation into a delicate queen of the premise, should be double their ability to survive, let’s talk about life.
I don’t know if anyone has made plans for study, travel, work, etc. I read a lot of time management books, but also made a lot of schedules, for my effect, I can only say, stick to it must have effect. Because before the use is very difficult, it is difficult to stick to it, after the use of habits, the effect is very obvious, reasonable use of time, efficient completion of work. When the Excel sheet filled with my work records and every moment of work, I instantly felt strong, and I was trying to wake up every minute. In the past, I could not read a book in a month. After making reading records, punching in and reading the collection, I reached 8 books from 0, and output more than 6 books of reading notes. This amount is not much, but the effect is obvious.
Anyway, the most important thing is to keep at it. Regardless of gender discrimination, ability discrimination, etc. You have to understand that we are not small women, independent thinking and financial make us look cool, not cry for comfort. In fact, to be a delicate female programmer is also very simple, as long as good work, good life.
Write at the end:
No winter will pass, no spring will come, the past 2020 is an extraordinary year for people around the world, everyone is strong and brave in the fight against the epidemic, here we clap our hands together, 2021 is coming as promised, make good goals to continue to grow.