preface
Also received a letter from a large number of fans in recent months, the letter content is generally the same, there are a lot of newbie to contact some new things will feel confused, don’t know what to do, have no direction, not a good way to learn, cause the wasted effort, it’s like the university entrance exam, with all kinds of secret points, circulated on the Internet fee, of course, there are free, In fact, no matter how good the secret, do not go to their own efforts, all day thinking of relying on some clever to achieve the ultimate goal, you need to pay double the price to repay you in those days did lazy behavior.
Talk about me again, I am not a genius, I am not as strong as you think, I am just a cloth clothes, compared with normal people, MY ability in all aspects is very poor, no matter from the practical ability or from the understanding, I can not and normal children. Maybe is the childhood of a serious illness, the brain creates a lot of damage to me, I can’t and normal children in memory, some things back ten times, twenty times, I can be hard to remember, a lot of things to blink just forgot, include now also is same, just finished, the teacher in class a class basically all returned to the teacher, I didn’t also the way ah. And including the teacher said those things, I also do not understand, feel IQ limits my freedom QAQ. In terms of my body, I had a serious illness almost every year, which lasted for several months and would not get better. Indeed, my parents were worried about me. When I was in primary school, my teacher often wrote “flowers in the greenhouse” in her composition comments. Now think of it, also do not know what to say, although I don’t want to admit that too ~ ~ ~ I often make some people can’t understand things, being isolated and laughed at by others, think about it now, how many celebrities are not here, only tolerance for solitude, carry to gossiping about others, immersed in their own field, I think this kind of life will become very meaningful, and this kind of life may be the life I pursue.
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Say so many useless talk, maybe a lot of people will feel very vexed, yes, I feel truly successful people are more willing to listen to others, and their comparison, you know the gap between you, you will have a struggle of direction and goals, so I first life philosophy is to be a target man with ideal, time don’t forget to beginner’s mind, to work hard for your goals.
My second life philosophy is not always to take, to know how to give. This is summed up in my learning in college career, on the road of my university study, many of my classmates, including my former classmate, how to say, ordinary may even words all can’t match, one to test or do the homework, while will think of you first, and then a day behind you and bother you or in QQ or WeChat bomb you, Because I don’t see a mobile phone, so a lot of news at that time didn’t back on, or other things, sometimes see suddenly met after a long time to forget, I hope you, under the support of my fans can understand academic burden is overweight, I also can’t ~ ~ ~ in fact I’m a man of strong personality, I am a man who treat each other sincerely, nice to meet you, Willing to treat me sincerely, I will also regard you as my best friend. I especially don’t like this kind of people who don’t cherish the fruits of others’ labor and trample on them. Helping you is love and not helping you is duty. Always remember that no one has the obligation to help you, and no one in this world has ever owed you anything. As a bosom blogger, I am free to help you, I have a clear conscience, so even if MY answer can not satisfy you, you should be grateful, after all, they help you for free, so a simple thank you is necessary, this is also a measure of a person’s moral cultivation. So my third piece of life wisdom is to always be grateful to those who have helped you. I don’t expect you to return anything, only hope you can go further in your future, I will sincerely bless you ~~~
My fourth life philosophy is to be a sincere and kind person. You may think that it is really hard to be such a person in today’s cruel and dark society. I’ve always believed that people are born good. In fact, everyone has their own good side, just because the environment and family background and changed his mind, I hope I have ever seen this article everyone can regain his past, no matter how the past, you need to be brave to face, to fully know themselves, rather than blindly to escape all kinds of setbacks, This will only add to the burden of your mind. Sometimes, to treat everyone sincerely, you will receive unexpected surprise, maybe you will say, HOW I used to be honest with others, finally friends take advantage of your feelings, cheat you, make you no longer to be a kind person. I know, just to ask a person it is difficult to change the original state of the now, I won’t ask any one person, I also know that use compassion by others, this is a very hateful behavior, because I also is one of the victims, but you should always believe that one good turn deserves another, as a kind person, will eventually get should some things, and in the workplace, Being honest increases your upside and potential, and you’ll get what you deserve in every situation. These things come in cycles.
My fifth life philosophy is to be filial to your parents, to be a consistent person. Filial piety word since ancient times is the essence of Confucianism, good filial piety first, do not know filial piety parents, his life path is narrow. I know, many parents do not pay enough attention for their children, on the one hand is its own cultural level is relatively low, this is completely understandable, let’s take myself for example, I am a rural children, parents’ cultural level is the level of primary school junior high school, in school, my parents can’t give me any guidance, for my parents, try very hard to make money to raise my reading, That’s enough to pay off for a lifetime. Why don’t I study hard? Children now widespread problem is that there is a generation gap and parents, this I also have experience greatly, and parents bicker, but this may be a common thing, in fact this after or the problem of family education, parents while we’re born, but not to understand children, to care for children of all ages the psychological changes, Children take the exam 100 points are probably only hope to get parents a praise, a small gift, take an examination of the zero may only hope to get parents a comfort, but as parents, it can’t meet the child’s small wish, only know to take no time, don’t understand not, to make money if you like to push to take off, so parents are extremely irresponsible, Children also need someone to love, need to have a talk to the object, you want to let the child go to respect you, to you as an example, how to listen to the heart-felt wishes of the children, appropriate to put down their work, to talk more with your child, improve some emotional exchange, the child as your best friend, eliminate the generation gap, I believe that the family is very happy.
My sixth philosophy is never to lose yourself in joy, never to lose your fight in defeat. Keep a clear head at all times and be sensible about what is right and wrong in life. Take myself as an example, since I was a freshman in college, I have received no less than ten enterprise internal promotion applications, some of which recommended me to do front-end, back-end development,.NET, quantitative investment, and even some of which are very popular at present, such as big data and artificial intelligence, some of which were founded in the last two years. There are also big as a line of code farmers yearn for BAT enterprises. People are always so ask me, do you have such a good chance why don’t we go now, in fact, I want to say is, something is fleeting, it will interfere with your normal routine, don’t cry because it is BAT for the olive branch to you now, you will have reached the requirements of their enterprise, maybe people just don’t think you have potential, I hope you make persistent efforts, I will have the opportunity to contribute my strength to the company and the country in the future. So I often smile without a word, perhaps this is as a scholar should have the mentality.
My seventh life philosophy is self-reliance and self-improvement, especially for women. I know, see my article of people in different ages, I’ll be more to teenagers, I said to them, the end of the university is not your only goal to put in the long run, everything is to try to learn things on her own, college teachers don’t teach you anything, almost their knowledge update very slowly, Including the kind of atmosphere of learning in the university is not so strong as your middle school times, and almost even a heart-to-heart friend are not, as a girl, should be more self-reliance and self-improvement, will not be looked down upon by boys. I hope you can prove to the majority of male friends through your strength that we are no worse than boys.
These life philosophy is also my personal principles, I believe that these philosophies will help you as a reader and many children are still on the road of struggle, I will sincerely bless you, cheer for you, encourage ~~
I believe that you, as a reader, have read my seven life lessons. I am glad if you found them useful and helpful. I feel that I spent so much time writing this article to show its value ~~~
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Follow-up: Talk about learning methods
Many friends are inefficient in learning, most of the reason is that learning methods lead to low efficiency, in fact, a good learning method is the same, no matter in which field, just need to be flexible, you can get twice the result with half the effort, do much better than others. Then I take myself as a practical case, with the most popular language, to give you an analysis of how I learn.
I literally, I am not one of god, I said no such thing as luck, the life of a student even bad luck to no friend, I am an underachiever, from small start, I am a clumsy person, what things are slow, I also said, in front of the elementary school teacher gave me the title is “greenhouse flowers”, is not long, Maybe I have been very naive, ability in junior high school, was the worst of the points in the school, a class at that time I didn’t have a little sad, still enjoy playing video games, game play, academic nature is going to fall off, I remember when I began to swim ring is grade ahead of time, very very poor at that time, All the bottom ten, the result to estimate technical school are quite difficult, may be my parents also know that I like to play game, behind is pulled to the teacher in charge there written guarantee, guarantee what actually is no too much useless, so like to play games or to play bai, I began to wake up because of a teacher in charge to call my mother, the teacher in charge said, There’s no way your child will get into high school. She won’t get enough marks to go to a technical school… May be I heard the reason, my mother and I talk for a long time……
Later, I completely give up video games, hard to read, every day I am worse than you, really bad a lot, but I beat my game that strength used in reading, absolutely as good as you, and indeed the fact proved that, I finally is fractional line more than 150 points score entered a high school smoothly, and I have to thank the junior middle school teacher in charge?
Maybe it was because of the difficult courses in high school, I once again fell into obscurity. My mathematics foundation is bad, the examination paper of 150 minutes can take an examination of 30 minutes only, take an examination of the parent at that time nasty, go down so can’t take an examination of even specialized subject.
I read about a lot of learning methods on the Internet, and in fact, from my point of view, my current method is the most feasible. I believe that many people may be like me at that time, mathematics is a very attractive, if you can feel the beauty of it, then you will love it as I did.
In my opinion, no matter what subject you study, the foundation is the key, pay attention to the reading of the textbook, reading the textbook is not blind reading, we need to do is to read the textbook thin, concentrate the knowledge points. If you like I was in math only 30 ~ 40 points, I suggest that you try to put the teaching material have read three times, can put the book in the sample do place, or even able to memorize all the knowledge, is the so-called rote learning, to learning, I believe, to know when you can make the whole book by the chest, you will not less than 100 points in math, And then to brush, inspired by doing many intelligence mathematics questions, multiple brush, record your experiences, your mistakes with a small notebook, this accumulation down for three months, I can guarantee you that your math is not less than 120, and then thin is to read the book, you brush has a lot of questions, This time you should return the books to lenovo, which knowledge is taken an examination of these subjects in the brush, you go to put these knowledge with a small notebook to record down, to those who were not involved in the knowledge points do a tag, if involved to join you again small laptop, and then go to review the two little notebook, such as long as after 1 ~ 2 months, I can assure you that you can like me in math, can be in position to the level of 130 ~ 140, I think about there are so many points, although may be a little difficult to reach the north, but on a general 985211 I feel this score enough you use, you have to do is appropriate brush behind and recitation notes, The highest score you can get is 142 to 146, which is what I did before the college entrance examination, and what I do now. Having a good study method can save you more time to do more things.
This set of methods is the result from my practice, with a real sense of universality, can be applied to any subject field, I hope the above can have a certain enlightenment to you as a reader, as long as you live well, I will be very happy. Just four thousand words, thousands of years ago
If you find it useful and helpful, I am glad, and I feel that I have spent so much time writing this article to show its value ~~~
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I will not change the original, here is a summary of the views of some fans or big people
There are several ways to learn. The key is to distinguish between your target points. Do you need to take a test? Or do you need to have a good job? Or maybe you need a skill point. After all, I agree with your point of view, just back. Others I suggest you: understanding (shallow reading), practice, review, re-practice, summary, theoretical basis. It is difficult to walk into basic misunderstanding again. Almost all knowledge has a reason and a foundation behind it, but no basic principle is complete without practice.