Personal blog post: My 2018
On the way forward, don’t forget the road.
Last night I wrote the third article on design pattern principles, “The Dependency Inversion Principle”, which was late, so I didn’t post it. I thought I would post it this morning. When I woke up in the morning, I read my moments and found that today is the last day of 2018. There is a strong force in my heart that urges me to suspend Posting last night’s article. Today, I will make a series of summaries and write a summary article to give 2018 an account and 2019 an expectation. Life seems to have to have some sense of ritual.
This is my first annual summary. I didn’t have time to prepare or plan. It was just a whim. I could only record the people and things that happened in this year according to the time line, recall the scene at that time, feel the heart at that time and reflect on my thoughts at that time.
A troubled beginning
New Year’s Day to New Year’s Day this month and a half nothing triggered my heart, even think of writing this article, in my heart is to start with the timeline after the New Year, may be what happened in the first month really touched my heart. During the Spring Festival, relatives talked about the economic decline this year, because the ten-year cycle of the economy has been popular since 2008, thinking that these are things we all need to experience, there is no special need to pay attention to, but what happened next, let me really feel a little suspense this year.
After the New Year to work, nothing special, or a person living in a single room, in the office building 2 kilometers away to work. I remember it was the second day of work. I was fine before I went to bed at night. When I got up the next day, I found something wrong with my left knee. This condition lasted for 2 weeks, during which a lot of plaster was put on, and the recovery was good. For two weeks, I stopped all physical activity, including climbing stairs, playing ball games and cycling. In fact, knee is not very good since childhood, often without reason of pain, I still remember when I was a child at night pain can not cry, after growing up basically there is no knee pain. After about a month of self-cultivation, is not self-cultivation, just pay special attention to some knee movement, recovery almost, can also play normally, is the first thing I remember in 2018.
Doom is upon us. One Sunday morning, when I was working overtime in the company, wayan suddenly sent me a photo of a car accident. I couldn’t see who it was from the photo, because her face was swollen and her facial features couldn’t be seen clearly. The elder sister said that uncle two had a car accident, very serious. Just after reading this sentence, tears fell down, that feeling is really for the first time in my life, words can not express this feeling. Endure distressed mood, immediately call dad, he was at the police station to deal with this matter, I asked him serious? I don’t think he’s gonna make it. Be prepared. At this time I have no words to say, afraid of opposite father hear, can only hastily say dad you go busy first. At that time, the whole family felt very heavy, many people could not sleep, and finally the second uncle still left. Think of it every night will shed tears, because he is the most painful I, since the childhood, childhood is the most like to go to his house, he would take me to play in his garden, to catch frogs, wait for us there is a swimming pool, although also want more than a dozen kilometers, but he’ll ride electric car I go swimming, swimming next after you come back to eat beef, the summer is almost every week. Thinking of this, I reflected on myself. Since graduation and work, I seldom visit uncles and uncles, which touched me a lot. I wonder whether people who work outside seldom care about their elders at home? If there is, I hope we have changed, I also plan to visit every family this year, no longer let yourself regret.
After these events, chatting with family members, feeling that this year is an eventful year.
job-hopping
This job-hopping is a follow my heart. After graduation, I came to China Merchants Bank to do development. Before I came to China, I listened to some senior students’ guidance, so it might not be a good choice to do technology. My youthful self disagreed, thinking it was up to the individual, not the circumstances. I still remember that when I left the internship unit, I communicated with HR and said that I should finish the road I chose on my knees. This year and a half is not a kneeling walk, I think so, everyone has walked the road is valuable. In China Merchants Bank, the leader really valued me and asked me to join the new project team, responsible for more new things, including background framework Spring Cloud, front-end framework Angular, Cloud platform operation and maintenance, etc. What makes me want to leave my job is to join an Internet company. This year and a half is not long, but when I communicate with some friends who work on the Internet, I find that there is a big gap with them, no matter in terms of skills or other aspects. After reviewing for a period of time, I got the offer and proposed to resign. The leader had a conversation, from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., without drinking a drop of water, going to the bathroom, let alone eating. In general, I have been very grateful to my leaders and colleagues for their care in the past year and a half.
It is a new field for me to work on the risk control platform in 360 Finance. Before, I was in contact with some account-related businesses in the bank, but now I am in contact with businesses related to risk control. I’m still learning and accelerating. I can share some of this knowledge with you later.
Run out of money
The first time I felt like I was running out of money. I worked for a year and a half, saved a hundred thousand, and spent it all in the middle of the year. Homestead to pile, a total of more than 200,000 yuan, and my brother shared, about 100,000 yuan, all spent, no special feeling, but I feel that you can really one thing to empty your money, no matter how much money you have, there are always some things to match you have that price. Because there is such a thing, so in the back with a friend or elder in the process of communication, occasionally talk about this problem, have friends who graduated at the same time, she stays at home all the money spent to purchase the homestead, these things elder exchange, they also said very understand just graduated five years before this kind of thing, they say it’s normal, Especially those of us who come to the big cities from the countryside to struggle, our parents have worked so hard to raise us as adults, we also need to earn money on some infrastructure in our hometown, but also to let our parents can better life. Although it is just piling, it does not change a lot, but it will slowly improve the life of the family. This year also found that the old home because of construction planning more than a road, now the house will be torn down, this piling, also be a little bit of preparation for the future living.
Tenants’ frustration
In May changed the job, moved a home, farmers house, what home have to arrange their own, is also stable down; Only lived 2 months, was informed by the landlord building needs to be transformed, within a month to move out, quite painful. At this time, I felt the helplessness of tenants. Some people joker that in big cities, it is to work for the landlord, a room of less than 30 square meters, 2,200 rent a month, but also only a farmer’s house, may be evicted at any time. Although these are indisputable facts, with personal power can not change, so can only be positive some of the think, make yourself strong. To use an old NBA saying, “What doesn’t break you makes you strong.”
license
This date should be remembered for the rest of your life. We ended our seven-year long distance relationship with our girlfriend, and on this day, we received one of the most important certificates in our life: our marriage certificate. Aren’t programmers supposed to be single? Ha ha, before I became a programmer, I might have a vision at that time. If I hadn’t talked about it at that time, AFTER I became a programmer, I would still be single now. I didn’t expect to get married so soon. Many of my friends and classmates got married this year. As a friend said: married, it’s time to start a career. Well, there is a saying, “with great power comes great responsibility.” Now with great responsibility comes great ability. Come on boy.
share
In December, I began to write the public account and blog again, which is also a way to improve my ability. After reflecting on the blogs recorded in the past, the main reason is the lack of persistence. Often write for a period of time and break for a period of time. I remember running for the longest time in my memory. The longest one was running for 55 consecutive days. This time not only write it, but do it as a product, learn how to run it, etc. Why do I have this idea? The reason is that I read some product books this year, but there is no place to use, so I want to try, this is a good way to learn. The most important thing is to share something useful and meaningful so that you can grow and not waste your reading time. Look forward to our common progress.
Those little notes
Books to read:
“You need a Storyteller on your Team”
A Survival Guide Beyond Soft Skill Code
From Idea to Product: Values and Methodology for Product Managers
Everyone is a Product Manager — For Product Newbies
Risk Control: Credit Risk Management and Practice in the Era of Big Data
Product Perspective: From Bustle to Doorways
Risk Control of Internet Finance
The Technical Stuff product Managers Need to Know: Becoming a Full-stack Product Manager
Meeting the Unknown Self
Alibaba Java Development Manual
InnoDB Storage Engine
There are some forgotten, did not form the habit of recording, also did not sum up some of the feelings of these books, so read over, next also want to develop the habit of reading, give yourself a request, for each book to write a feeling, and share with everyone.
I bought a dozen geek time columns, and I had very little time to really study, so I had to keep filling it up.
I started my fitness program in July, and the main purpose was to exercise and make my body healthier. I kept going and went to the gym at least twice a week.
conclusion
It is the first time to write a summary and review the year of 2018. There is no delicate description or pompous language, only the true inner portrayal. “Don’t walk too fast, sometimes stop and recall what you have experienced, you will find a different value.” This is a sentence sent by ali’s interviewer at the beginning of the year, to share with everyone.
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