The year 2021 is an extraordinary year. After the COVID-19 outbreak in 2019, our lives have been transformed by the changes in international policies.
Looking back at your journal for the first half of 2021, you can see that both personally and with your friends, you’ve experienced things large and small
- For the first time, I didn’t go home for the Spring Festival. Lucky to have a good friend aunt family
- The first time, was urged to buy a house
- For the first time, I was in danger
- For the first time, mentor new people
- For the NTH time, farewell friends
At the age of 25, I feel the pressure of reality, the key is that I am not good at…
Friends quit, confused decadent
As we all know, in early 2020, there was a grey rhino event -novel Coronavirus – that disrupted all global steps. After a tough 20 years, 21 years started and colleagues (including friends) began to make plans for their career futures.
From March to May, almost every other week, some colleagues whom I knew but did not know left.
Later, I learned that March to May is the golden job-hopping season. When everyone got their year-end bonus, they began to look for opportunities to find better platforms
Silly me, I realized it, but I started to feel anxious and confused
Facing this situation, for me who has just been working for more than one year, although I have the idea of changing my job, it is not strong
Until my friend A, with whom I usually eat and go shopping, suddenly said, “I’m leaving next week.”
At that time my heart, shock mixed with not give up, why suddenly want to leave..
Follow-up, you should know it, to begin the process of self-reflection (in autism….)
Do you like your current job?
In the face of market recruitment, what level are they at?
What is your career plan in the future?
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If you are the average person, after thinking about yourself, you have a clear goal, and the rest of the action
For me, after a short period of mental thinking, the goal becomes more and more vague, in an endless cycle of more thinking -> more stress -> less motivation.
They say the best way to destroy a person is to make them work crazy
Yes, for me at that time, confusion represented escape, crazy work and endless goals. It was a robot without thought
Failed interview, agonized
In the face of my friends leaving their jobs one by one, I know that I can no longer be so self-decadent. Although the goal is not clear now, I should take action, or I will miss the last golden time for job-hopping in May.
- Prepare and revise your resume
- The shotgun
- Interview (phone interview, video interview)
It is conceivable that the effect of the interview is not satisfactory
The best way to describe my whole interview is to use the words in “Zuo Zhuan”, “try hard, fail again, and exhaust three times”
After the interview, I hung up and wanted to give up, but I was unwilling to continue to face. This cycle lasted for a month
How to say, the goal is not clear, like a headless chicken, flying around, is certainly little effect.
Indeed, before the interview do not know how to prepare what, busy to prepare things for the interview did not ask, ask the answer is not up or the answer is very empty, the interview can only fail
Start small
I experienced confusion and anxiety in March and April, and the agonized interview in May. At that time, I really had mixed feelings.
Facing the future, only to figure it out by themselves, you must take out a pen and paper to do SWOT analysis
Make a comprehensive analysis of your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats
In after analysis, found in 996, I can bear the compressive ability is an advantage, concentrate on work, no time to analyse and summarize, cause my weaknesses and threats, after completion of project no gain and growth, technology is also a backward, know very little about technology outside the industry, such vicious cycle down, There will be online spread 30 years old is optimized to happen to themselves.
Facing this situation is also an opportunity for me to get out of my comfort zone at a younger age.
- Start to pick up the basics of common industry techniques such as Python and output articles
- Constantly practice in the project, output summary and technical points, actual project articles
- Improve and practice your presentation skills so that you can speak fluently during the interview
An analysis down, their thinking is clear, the goal is clear, the first time to find the motivation ✌️
That is to study two hours a day, and output the article, small goal to start, let’s go
On the road
In the last month, my boyfriend took me into the pit, now that you have started your small goal, the output of the article published in the nuggets
It just so happens that the nuggets have a 30-day challenge in June
I’m sure I can do it
In the process of more challenges, I also changed. I improved my work efficiency during the day, and I focused on my study and organized articles in the evening to participate in challenges. At the same time, he also learned the knowledge of the day, strengthen and consolidate.
On June 30, when I posted my article in the evening, I came home from work and felt my first achievement
Try to move forward, change yourself will always continue, do not do how to know not
A university teacher once said, “As long as you act now, it is never too late.” Take action with goals and come on
conclusion
Now that 2021 is more than half over, my half of the world is failing compared to the good bosses.
The answer to life is not to think out, is a step by step. Whether or not we become better people and live better lives depends on the choices we make and the path we are taking. Believe that we all have the power to create a better future.
In the second half of 2021, be positive and change yourself, starting with small goals like joining the Nuggets’ monthly activity. Go!
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