Where are all the “middle-aged” people who disappear at 35?
“You see, no one talks about anxiety at 45. It’s real anxiety.”
Layoffs are real, and there are many departures, but Yoda sees them as the norm. It’s normal for peers to stick together and focus on topics that are relevant to them. No one wants to get laid off, but when they do, life goes on. Midlife anxiety is being amplified.” What is anxiety? “Everyone feels anxious because of the uncertainty about the future, with the pace of life so fast and the pressure of work so high.” Hou Feng will enter the insurance industry next, he has been a few months before the state of living beyond their means to prepare. The support of his partner is especially important at this time, as Hou’s wife’s steady job will keep the family running. The cost of living is not that great, and we have some savings, so we can’t say that once we quit our jobs, we can’t make it. But if they both lose their jobs, the consequences are unimaginable.”
So the question is, should we be anxious? Everyone’s situation is different. Also, at the age of 35, some people may not care whether they are optimized or not, so much pressure, but there are a large number of people who are the backbone of the family, when they hear about optimization, they start to worry. Why do they have anxiety? I feel or their technology is not high, in the first-tier cities is optimized 35 May exist, but as long as you can in three or four line city enough, you are still the main force, our company has 42, veteran programmers, is still very strong, the somebody else technologies do cows, but should be considered before the age of 35 turned management job, do not blindly technology.
Learning more in spare time can reduce anxiety. Learning can increase our knowledge reserve and problem-solving ability. Confident can reduce anxiety, and can’t be fooled by some people who can spread and sell anxiety on the Internet. It is recommended to study knowledge mainly in the main field, and select several branches to learn knowledge related to the main field, so that the span will not be too long. Since you choose this field, you have to keep learning and accumulate experience.
If the ability is not good, do not want to learn, that is should be anxious!
At each stage there is a loophole that can be exploited to sell games to teenagers, youth and health to middle-aged people, anxiety to office workers, and air coins to those who dream of sudden riches.
Anxiety trafficking is a particularly useful tool.
Education anxiety, anxiety knowledge deficiency, not only for themselves, but also for the next generation.
Age anxiety, anxiety doesn’t accumulate fast enough, and time waits for no one.
Emotional anxiety, anxiety is a reliable partner is there? Where is it.
All of these questions are telling you that you must have it immediately, not telling you whether you match your current situation. People can be manipulated by emotions, before reaching the other shore, a little careless will be blown to another direction. The so-called rhythm was taken. But, like people drinking water, lengnuanzizhi. More importantly, by fulfilling your own life and becoming happy, you will be less affected by anxiety and more effective in addressing the root causes of anxiety. All of this, you have to experience for yourself, make your own choices, and come to a better conclusion.
Anxiety and stress are human beings, but anxiety trafficking foist spilled anxiety on people by seducing inappropriate desires. It is unethical to create illusory anxiety experiences that cause a degree of panic and even profit from marketing.
In a word, have the courage to face their own life, serious life, serious study, serious work, improve themselves, the future is still a long way, we are still very young, do not be anxious about, and thirty years of pressure is normal, the appropriate pressure can promote our development.
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