I worked overtime again today. I was supposed to do a book delivery event today. But this time, or forget, or set it at 8 o ‘clock tomorrow night!



A lot of new readers have been added in these two days, and many readers have added brother K’s wechat. To be honest, Kage’s user experience for adding friends was not great. So today, standing on the point of view of the people who are added, we should talk about the pit you should avoid.


1. Many of my friends’ wechat names are fancy and full of emojis.




This type of friend’s wechat name is tolerable because at least it has some letters or Chinese characters in front of it. When K searches for friends, he can get results based on the letters between their symbols or Chinese characters.


But the following friends of the micro signal, really can not bear.


Lightning??


Triathlon??


Remy??


How do you type this letter?



K elder brother in order to facilitate their search, respectively to their remarks:

A, lightning

B. Bicycles

C, the man’s head

D, M


Any idea why K-man has these experiences? Because pull everyone into the group, you need to manually invite brother K. When K invited him, he found that he did not know what “keywords” to search for them.


I can’t go through my friends list, can I?



I really have a lot of wechat friends! Maybe you have a hundred or two hundred friends, and I have a thousand friends, so if I go through my friends list, I’m not going to do anything else. So sometimes these guys, they lose the chance to get pulled in. Because I really can’t find him…



In fact, what name you choose is your freedom. Brother K will not and cannot interfere with your freedom. I just hope that you can put yourself in others’ shoes, and maybe some hidden opportunities will be lost.


In fact, Brother K has communicated with a lot of big wigs, and the consistent conclusion is: delete friends, these names fancy, do not conform to the user’s habits, will certainly be deleted.


2. Don’t write notes when adding friends.


When a new friend adds me, I read the notes. There are a lot of notes without any introduction, there’s a good chance they won’t pass. A few pass, may be the hand shaking…


3, when adding friends, do not open the circle of friends permission.


New friends add BROTHER K, if the moment did not open the circle of friends permission, brother K will generally send them “within 5 minutes do not open the circle of friends permission, immediately block.”


Don’t think K brother said this is crazy, in fact, not so.


Brother K needs screening, in the case of unfamiliar with you, how to screen? How do I judge whether you are wechat business, selling tea girl, liar…


I had to do a quick look through moments. If they are all advertisements or some bad things, then Brother K will directly block them. So we should cherish their circle of friends, do not send some random have no, it will bring you a certain influence, but you do not know it.


Unable to judge the true identity of the other side, at this time K brother can only “would rather wrong to kill a thousand, can not let go of a” mentality to screen.


If a person with ulterior motives is drawn into the group, it will harm everyone, won’t it?


4. When talking to each other in private, pay attention to time.


A lot of guys start asking questions and don’t look at the current time. If it’s work time, don’t talk privately. Interrupting people at work actually leaves a very bad impression in your mind because you don’t think about them at all.


You may still be a student or not at work, but not everyone is as empty as you are. Try not to disturb other people’s life and work!


5. Be sure to think before you ask questions.


In fact, a lot of friends ignore this point, think that added a more severe than their own people, what can ask.


Not really!!


If you haven’t looked up the question, or haven’t thought about it at all, ask it directly, it’s easy to block it.


Be sure to learn to be grateful.


Anyone who answers any of your questions should at least say “thank you”. Because it takes time to answer your questions. If it is a complicated question, after asking you can send a small red envelope meaning.


It’s not really for your money.


The next time you ask a question, the other person can see the last chat. Found you at the end of the time, sent a red envelope. It shows that you are a grateful person and take your questions very seriously.


Did you lose or gain in the end?


Time is precious for anyone! No one helps an ungrateful person many times.



These are my personal experiences.


Finally, be sure to learn to put yourself in others’ shoes, and maybe your life will go much smoother.



Dignitaries will not easily appear, are your usual little gratitude in return.


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