Reprint to my personal blog:
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Unripe of science + civil engineering + construction site = do not have girlfriend!
After the internship in the third and fourth years, and the work after graduation, I gradually recognize and accept this fact (in Yichang
I fell in love when I graduated and started construction in Wuhan, which made me want to change my career as soon as possible. My girlfriend is working in a game company in Shenzhen. IT is because of her that I get to know the concepts of “Internet”, “IT” and “programmer”. Take an examination of the civil servant needs a lot of time to do the problem, recite the problem, I was completely unable to carry out the conditions. The regular meeting and rectification every day is enough for me to drink a pot of water, and the boss is not at the helm, except when the project starts to enter and the final payment is calculated, other periods of time will not appear basically… .
Decided to naked resignation
I have not been out of Hubei province since I was in my early 20s, except that I went to The Wudang Mountain in Shiyan, Hubei province once in my sophomore year or junior year. This makes me yearn for IT and Shenzhen. Career change, in the eyes of the elders seems to be a taboo word, for me also a lot of pressure, after all, it means that the four years of college wasted!
Fortunately, my parents are both very cheerful people. They have always let me make my own decisions and supported my decisions since I was young.
Before my naked resignation, my understanding of IT industry was limited to the words C# and Java I heard in college, and the advertisements of “xinhua computer school” I often saw on TV… . Finally, after some “Baidu”, I went to a place in Nanjing for Java Web training, which lasted for more than half a year from July 2014 to January 2015.
nanjing
This small half year time, more and more pressure to the back. I don’t want to ask for more living expenses from my family, so EVERY day I calculate X yuan for breakfast, X yuan for lunch and X yuan for the rest of the night. If X yuan is greater than 10, I will eat two steamed buns if it is less than 10. In the last three months, I couldn’t get used to living in the dormitory arranged by the school, so I couldn’t read quietly at all. So I went to a nearby community to rent a room, that is, a storage room with no window, bed + desk and chair, at 650 / month.
It may be that I am too weak to understand, the semester is coming to an end, and I feel that Java has not found any way out, and I am disappointed with myself again and again when I see more red errors in the Eclipse console than I have written code. Always can’t understand the client and server communication, paging completely can’t move hands, so I began to focus on the front end, at that time we are more resistant to write CSS, because this for beginners need a lot of patience to debug, to remember, to practice. This was not a problem for me at all. The work experience before I quit gave me a lot of patience, and in the next few months I started writing static pages over and over again to improve my CSS.
As for Java, I no longer try to understand the concept. I take the addition, deletion and modification of others’ writing to check the Demo and write it repeatedly, just like practicing CSS. It was a pretty boring time, just doing one thing during the day, building database tables, writing Hirbernate configuration, Dao layer, Serivce layer, Biz layer, JSP view, and the whole CRUD interaction. Isn’t it said that as long as kung fu is deep, the iron pestle can be ground into a needle?
During the six months in Nanjing, my mood was dominated by anxiety, depression and hope.
Distress anxiety, just rely on CSS proficiency, can actually find a job;
Decadent depression, learn so pit, can really stand firm in Shenzhen;
With hope, finally ending a yearlong long distance relationship, new industry, new city, and her.
shenzhen
After the semester, I went back to Wuhan and took the train T96 from Hankou to Shenzhen with 6000 given by my mother.
12 hours of driving, the moment I got off to see my girlfriend, I think this decision must be worth it, the line is like the mountain, must stick to it!