Nothing can stop me from becoming a fairy
Everything in this world is equivalent. If you don’t work hard, don’t dream about it, ok?
(a)
Every time open micro blog, are dozens of people did not pay attention to private letter private letter. In fact, I can understand that in this fast-paced society, it is difficult to find a person who is willing to listen to your grievances, willing to stop and see if you are ok.
A girl sent me a very long message, saying that she was stupid. She was a sophomore in college, and she didn’t like her major, so she couldn’t learn it. She had no talent in what she did, and she couldn’t find her interest and didn’t know where to start. However, she also has ambition, do not want to this life so mediocre old, she wants to earn a lot of money, want to live a better life, do not want to disappoint their parents full of confidence. She wanted to know if there was any way she could change herself, be a better person.
The sister spent a lot of time describing what her parents expected of her and the hardships they had to pay to support the family.
Her mother, who worked as a grocery clerk, would get up at six in the morning and walk long distances to work at the supermarket. She would make do with leftovers in the microwave and sometimes carry boxes of goods from the warehouse to the store.
Her father was a teacher in the remote countryside, coming back only on weekends and staying at school the rest of the time.
Her parents scrimped and saved, but they never gave her less money every month.
When I saw those sentences, my nose suddenly turned sour and I couldn’t help thinking of my parents.
Emotional resonance, I went in to see the sister’s weibo, two hours ago, she sent a discussion about so-and-so star, three hours ago is about a joke on so-and-so Korean drama, and all kinds of jokes, selfie….. The number of micro blog posts is 6,000.
I am not against micro-blogging, but I, who have been playing micro-blogging for three years, have only posted 600 messages in total, and she has posted 6,000.
She is not confused, she knows her own situation, there are people who want to protect, but also want to defend the dream, uneasy in plain, but do not want to pay efforts.
I felt a little sad for a moment. Didn’t her parents give her a quiet time to study and not be troubled by material things in exchange for the tedious commonplace of half her life? Wasn’t it worth her a little effort?
I have nothing against people watching Korean dramas, but I hate it when you make fun of descendants of the Sun’s unreasonable plot while yelling that your dreams are still far away.
I have nothing against people using social media, but I do resent you saying you can’t find a way to be a better person while scrolling, Posting friends and taking selfies.
I’m not against people chasing celebrities, but I can’t stand it when you spend your parents’ money on sky-high concert tickets while crying that you’re not good enough to live up to their expectations.
Everything god gives you is clearly priced, and now you waste a moment of youth to pay for it with half a lifetime of hard work.
(2)
Is it really hard to stop and try?
A lot of people know what they want, also know to use that method to achieve the goal, just can not take that step, but also to find a lot of excuses for their own, no talent, no perseverance, not interested in…..
An episode of A Korean drama lasts one hour. Generally speaking, there are about 20 episodes. Watching 10 Korean dramas takes a total of 200 hours.
And that’s not to mention the time spent teasing plots, discussing characters and occasionally gossiping about celebrities’ personal lives on Weibo and wechat.
It usually takes 45 minutes to play a match, but of course you don’t just play one.
Watching an episode of entertainment variety shows usually lasts one or two hours, and you will constantly check your Weibo and wechat moments.
It takes 40 to 50 hours to read a million-word online novel, and of course you have to thank the author for giving you the end.
Speaking of this, there must be a lot of people against it, saying that this is to enjoy life, this is a way of entertainment, we should have a quality of life, not too rigid life, otherwise life is boring ah.
It’s just I think you should work hard when you’re young.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with liking an easy life, but if you are really content with plain life, you will not complain that such a life is too boring, farther and farther from your dreams, and the people you want to protect are getting older and older.
Since you have chosen to live a comfortable and plain life in this bustling downtown, don’t ask me which way to reach the real dragon slaying road, and how to leave the world a distant figure.
You can recite at least 30 words in one hour, and you can recite 6000 words in 200 hours of ten Korean dramas. There are only 4500 words in cet-4. You cry and cry that you failed cet-4 and CET-6, and you failed IELTS. But have you asked yourself whether you are really trying, or just moved yourself.
A lot of people lie in bed in the morning, sleep late, together began to reflect on themselves, and wasted so much time, in the heart and say to yourself, tomorrow must get up early, results at 11 o ‘clock in the evening, but forget all about what they said to themselves in the morning, playing mobile phones brush the micro blog until the early hours of the night.
A reader read one of my articles last year, saying that he had made up his mind to take the postgraduate entrance exam. He clocked and said “Good morning” on my Micro blog at five o ‘clock every morning. It has been four months now.
The life of self-discipline, study, reading, getting up early, reciting words, is not as difficult as you imagine, but you have a back-up now, life has not forced you to that, there are people for you to resist all the hardships.
(3)
There is a way back, and there is still room in your life, so you can choose to live comfortably.
When you are really forced by life cornered, can you continue to watch Korean dramas, play games, brush micro blog to see jokes of life?
In the movie “The Pursuit of Happyness”, the hero is cornered and has no place to live, so he and his son sleep in the men’s room of the subway station all night. In the early hours of the morning, passers-by bang on the door to come in and go to the toilet. The hero covered his son’s ear with one hand to avoid disturbing the sleeping son, and feared that the door would be broken open.
A lot of people said they cried when they saw this scene, but I have no sympathy for the hero.
Why must be to cornered when, just think to change, in the day can still choose comfort.
The wife left to find a new job in New York City. The wife clearly loved him and their son, but she was squeezed by life. She had to work 16 hours a day, but she couldn’t even pay the rent.
Even though he later opened his own securities firm and became a shining man, he could never find the wife who loved him.
Yes, some people say that the worst outcome of our life is just a late bloomer, but I’m really afraid that when we waste time waiting for a late bloomer, we accidentally lose our most precious things, and even can’t protect those who love us.
Who knows? Tomorrow and the surprise first?
I can only hope that the sooner you grow up, the sooner you realize, the sooner you take responsibility for life, the sooner you realize the meaning of hard work.
When your parents are sick, you won’t be embarrassed and scared because you don’t have money.
When you meet the girl you like, you will not be forced to give up love because of bread.
Life never regret the saying, but some things missed will become irreparable regret.
I’m afraid I’m a late bloomer, and when I stand in the crowd and shine, all the people I want to protect are gone.
If you have a little bit of slack, are to live up to love.