Some people say that “life is like a play, all depends on acting”, I personally think“Life is a play, all depends on luck.” 。
1 I survived as a child
Recently, in retrospect, I can have such achievements all the way, in addition to personal efforts, but also a very big part of luck.
The impact of this luck on my entire life is very, very important.
Since I was a child, my luck has not been too bad, even there are often some weird scenes, let the smooth down.
When I was a kid, my greatest good luck was that I survived. I’m not kidding.
When I was young, I liked swimming very much. In fact, there was no river there, so we would swim in mud ponds. I clearly remember nearly drowning three times.
The first time has not learned to swim, took a car tire, ran to the mud pool to play, the results of riding on the top of the tire over, choked a few saliva after consciousness.
Fortunately, there were many people near the muddy pool. My friend who knew water in the village scooped me up. When I woke up, I was on the shore.
The second time, when we just learned to swim, there is a big ancient well, we will dive in the inside, just learned to also do not know wearing slippers diving.
Wearing slippers to swim especially hard, fell in the well drank a lot of saliva, surrounded by a circle of people but no one moved, we are estimated to be scared in the side.
In the end, it was really lucky. I thought I wouldn’t die like this. I kicked hard to get my slippers out of the water and swam to the edge of the well.
Then to the third time, that time has learned to swim, in order to save our village a baby, almost gave his life.
At that time, adults are busy, children are very wild, their own play, what on the tree, stealing fruit, go to the reservoir often things, so very lucky at that time I did not hang.
At that time in the countryside, every year for various reasons, some children died unexpectedly…
2 Met my brother in junior high school
Speaking of my junior and senior high school, it was really magical…
The time of junior high school just arrive county seat from countryside, see what all rare, to what all addiction, for instance game hall, gambling, play mahjong, make friends, smoke, steal thing, swordsman novel…
Junior high school almost infected with all can be infected with bad problems, and even 5 friends became sworn brothers, truant, smoking, playing cards, fight….
As an added bonus, it’s true that almost anything can be addictive!
In order to quit gambling at that time, he would cut his arm with a knife (I still can’t figure out why he was so stupid at that time). Jin Yong and Gu Long finished their novels in the second year of junior middle school.
Every Friday night at a friend’s house to play mah-jongg; Every night after self-study to find a place to fight gold, overnight is common.
Stealing is also addictive. At that time, I met a friend in the society who often took out good cigarettes, good wine and delicious food. I don’t know what it is, but LATER I realized that it is stealing.
For a while I was very friendly with him, so he took me to play, often in the middle of the night when people steal pigeons, rabbits or steal books in broad daylight bookstore.
It ended up stealing a bike…
When I was discovered by my family, my parents did not beat or scold me for the first time, but said that they could not control me any longer and would send me to the police station. I still remember their extremely disappointed but flat eyes.
I was extremely flustered, thinking how to get rid of this matter, if really go to the police station is finished, so I lied about the bike is from a classmate.
My father didn’t believe me, so he asked me to find my classmate’s home to confront him, so I lied about a place at random. After I went there, I said I didn’t know where the classmate’s home was, but it was here that I got it.
My dad asked me what the classmate’s name was, and I said a name at random! So my father asked the people in the village if there was this man!
Very, very coincidentally there was such a man in the village, and he was not at home that day! Oh, my God! I can’t believe it’s such a coincidence.
My father felt relieved when he found someone. I took the opportunity to tell my father that I would return the bike to my classmates tomorrow. The next day I stole the bike, and I left it where we took it.
It’s so lucky that my dad doesn’t know about this till now! From then on, I never stole anything!
To the end of the second day, my brothers do not go to school, some to be a soldier, some to work, some learn hairdressing, some learn to cook, only I and the third left to continue to go to school.
So we were determined to start learning, even physics can be the first in the class, although the time of graduation English got 18 points, but also from the key high school only 5 points.
The most fortunate thing in junior high school is that I did not continue to sink when I was at the bottom and was admitted to senior high school.
3 I met someone special in high school
In high school, I began to wave again.
At that time contacted the fantasy novel, the feeling is more vigorous than swordsman, just my roommate did gold card in the bookstore, so every day to see a mess of books.
English continues to be bad, but because in a very poor high school, random examination can also rank a few, can be the teacher’s attention.
To three and three suddenly woke up, to take an examination of the university. At this time, I met the person of life, my English teacher.
After the division of arts and sciences, my English teacher became the head teacher. The teacher saw that MY English was more vigorous, and even began to give us (6 people) an hour of free class after school every afternoon.
They didn’t charge us a cent!
Now I think how lucky I am. At that time, I had an idea that I could not pass the college entrance exam and I had to learn English well, so I became crazy about learning English.
In the college entrance examination, I did well in English with 99 points, ranking second in my class (the school was not good). However, because I only studied English, I failed in math, physics and chemistry.
After the evaluation, he thought he could not estimate the top, and filled in some voluntary, as expected, no one was admitted.
But the magic thing happened, and finally I found that my score was 2 points on the second line. It was so lucky that I didn’t have to pay tuition fees when I took remedial courses.
I didn’t expect more luck!
When I had been studying for 2 weeks, the country had a new policy (2006) that year, which allowed me to fill in the application for the first time. Many secondary universities failed to register for the first time, so I could fill in the application for the second time.
At that time thinking of tutoring, also did not pay attention to, care about, the result or my friend (old black) hard pull ME to fill, the result was actually admitted!!
Being admitted to university is the first right choice in my life!
4 Stray into pyramid selling organizations
Just like god, I came to the university.
Just top a big one, once junior high school’s sworn son brother, say oneself in the outside work encounter difficulty, hope I lend him a little money, I TM at that time still poor student.
After giving 200 yuan, I ate steamed bread for a month. Finally, I really did not want to eat steamed bread, so I went to find a part-time job, and then moved to the career of tutor.
Later, I became very rich during the four years in the university. I was the first one in our dormitory to take tutors to earn money. During the four years in the university, I took more than 100 students, 90% of whom were in senior three, physics and chemistry.
At the end of the first semester of my freshman year, I also wanted to earn some money in winter vacation, so he invited me to Go to Huainan, Anhui province.
I didn’t expect to find out that it was a pyramid selling organization. In the following 28 days, I almost lost my personal freedom. Wherever I went, I was followed by a middle-aged woman.
Still full mouth full mouth shout be putty crooked crooked: strong elder brother, strong elder brother, the key is that time, her age I can call mama to her almost….
But, fortunately, I was lucky!
This pyramid selling organization is the Southern style, mainly brainwashing, at the beginning I want to go, said the promise to finish the course, there is no problem we will let you go.
So IT took me a week to learn the whole system. They delayed me for another 20 days for various reasons. After that, I had a bad cold and they were probably afraid of something bad. So they let me go back.
I haven’t seen the brother since, and I don’t hate him now. I just don’t know what happened to him.
By the way, the 200 yuan I borrowed from him hasn’t been given to me yet…
5 Graduated from the storm
University is a second-rate school, the major is a third-rate major, I knew it was hard to find a job, but I didn’t think it was so hard to find.
In my senior year, everyone was taking postgraduate entrance exams and falling in love with each other. I hardly stayed in school for a whole month, either interviewing or sending out resumes.
A whole semester passed, serious work still did not find, immediately to the New Year, under a hurry I went to Shenzhen, BYD, Foxconn experience.
Fortunately, I did not continue to sink in the Shenzhen factory; Clenched teeth and borrowed 10,000 yuan to training institutions to train Java, from then on to the career of programmers.
Being a programmer is the second best choice in my life!
After the training course, I encountered some minor setbacks. I worked in a company for two weeks and was fired. After that, I went to Huawei outsourcing company by accident.
Fortunately, a year later, I finally joined a software company that I think is the real meaning, and learned a lot during the year there.
It brought me into the whole industry. When I was in this company, I often read the news of the Blog Park during working hours, so I was particularly interested in Internet companies.
So after a year and a half, I decided to go north!
6 North drift mutation
In fact, before I drifted to Beijing, my life was very, very dull, almost no different from millions of ordinary people, but in Beijing, it really began to change.
So north drift, is the third time in my life the most right choice!
When I came to Beijing, I got 5 offers. At that time, I just wanted to choose an Internet company, so I chose a third-party payment company. The salary offered by this company was not the highest, and the highest salary was to work in a telecom project in Ericsson, which was 30% higher than that.
I chose this third-party payment company because I felt that the company with the closest money was more promising, and this company looked the most like an Internet company.
In fact, when I went there, I realized that the company had bought the first wave of technology, and the whole thing was modifying XML files, but I persevered.
A year later, many, many great programmers were gone. As a person who is not very good, I have the opportunity to do some new projects and gradually be recognized by the leaders.
Very lucky, ushered in the life of the first opportunity.
In 2013, Yu ‘ebao was born, and in 2014, Internet finance exploded. Many companies wanted to share in the pie, including our company.
I was assigned to this project by the leader. I went to a five-star hotel in the suburb of Beijing and participated in a project that has a great impact on my life.
7 Manage OR big factory
I was originally in the project, which was a lead developer.
As a result, the vice president in charge of the project went out to start his own business with the team, and there were only two technicians left. At that time, the product was only developed as a prototype.
The leadership arranged me to try to do management, I actually said to the leadership: I think about it!
At that time, I also found a good job outside the salary increase of 50%, so I hesitated to go to a big factory or stay in management.
I decided to stay and negotiate with my boss. The point was to give me a 50% raise and I would stay, or I would leave.
Very lucky, although ** was forced to negotiate with the leader, but the leader actually agreed.
** The development of my career in the later period is really due to the meeting of my three leaders: department manager, VICE general manager of RESEARCH and development, and vice general manager.
To be honest, if it were not for these three leaders in the workplace, I would not have the subsequent experience.
So I am very lucky to meet a good leader! And their own choices!
8 To the management
So I took two people with me, and the leader selected two from the previous department to support me, forming the newest personnel of this project.
I didn’t expect this project to be so fierce. At the beginning, it could collect tens of millions of yuan in one day.
So the company decided to set up a subsidiary to do the project alone, so the project became a product, from a product to a product line.
I became a technical manager from a project leader. The years I worked in an Internet finance company were the busiest period in my life.
I never went home at 11 o ‘clock in the evening, and a dozen people queued up to talk to me about problems. When I was under the greatest pressure, I walked in the playground of Renmin University with my eyes closed to relieve pressure.
Once I got off work and had a car accident by taxi. My head hit the windshield and I couldn’t sit still for a day. The next day, I went to the company again.
Two years later, the parent company went public and spun off our subsidiary, so I became the technical director of the subsidiary.
Because of the rapid business development of the company, we have encountered many problems, such as high concurrency, hacker attacks, problems with capital flow and even repeated payments. None of these are small things.
I was very, very lucky that I was blogging about it at the time. Unexpectedly, I found that people liked my article, so I continued to write.
What I didn’t expect was that I was now writing words for a living; Writing a blog at the beginning was just an unintentional action, it is not too lucky!
9 The Pinnacle of the workplace
In 2017, the parent company is developing a new generation of payment platform, using the technology stack Spring Boot /Cloud.
Coincidentally, IN 2016, I also introduced these technologies into the Internet finance company at that time and developed many projects.
The business of the parent company is developing very fast, and the previous system can no longer bear the burden. The development pressure of the new system is very heavy, and there is a very, very short of personnel.
At that time, our company was sold to a state-owned enterprise, and I was not happy working there. After some communication, I rejoined the parent company with four programmers as architects.
I am responsible for building the big data platform to support the new generation of third-party payment platform and support various data under the micro-service architecture.
Half a year later, I was promoted to be the vice president of the R&D center. At that time, there were more than 100 people in the r&d center.
In the future, I was not only responsible for the work of the data center, but also for the development of the whole R&D center, mainly in charge of migrating business from the old platform to the new platform.
I’ve experienced a lot of accidents and problems, and I’ve seen a lot of workplace intrigue, which frankly, as a tech guy, I’m not very good at.
Fortunately, a small action I took before brought me such a big opportunity.
10 More luck
As mentioned above, when I was working in an Internet finance company, I thought what I was doing at that time was very meaningful, so I recorded it in words and posted it to the blog park, and unexpectedly found that people liked it very much.
It inspired me to keep writing, and SOON I became an expert blogger in various technical communities. In 2017, FOLLOWING the trend, I also opened an official account.
As the exposure increased, I later opened a lot of paid technical courses, or some technical lectures, sharing and so on at the invitation of various technical communities.
By 2018, my spare time income had exceeded my salary income. At that time, I wanted to quit my job, but I felt that I should not disappoint the trust of my leader.
In 2019, a serious accident happened in the company, so I decided to quit the company.
Started a freelance career…
Grassland Tianlu, Dongguan, Shenzhen, New York, Los Angeles, east coast, west coast, traveling and working at the same time, when I was going to the Philippines for half a year.
The new coronavirus is coming…
11 Entrepreneurial mindset…
Plans to go abroad almost went up in smoke…
Since I left my job, many people have asked me whether I started my own business. I have said that I am not starting my own business, but that I am a freelancer.
Because in my understanding, starting a company is a big deal, and I can only support myself at that time. Starting a business seems far away from me.
However, after leaving the company, I met many people. They are all in their own field and desperately run forward. Slowly, they will be compared and affected.
Especially to this year, slowly from a freelancer mentality, adjust to the mentality of an entrepreneur.
I was very lucky to meet someone. I have one person to thank. My best friend and best brother will not laugh at youth. We joined the company and became friends in 2011, but he also quit in 2019.
We were just thinking, can we do something meaningful together?
12 Something meaningful
What is meaningful may differ from person to person.
For me and young people who can’t laugh, we are very pragmatic, and it is best to combine our own expertise. We are both programmers who have been working in the industry for 10 years.
Once, I accidentally chatted with you and asked whether we should create a we-media of comics because people are under so much pressure in life. On the one hand, we know this industry well, and on the other hand, we can bring some fun to people in this group.
Just do it!
The two programmers are completely laymen to comics, and the early stage of cartoon investment is more, after the beginning and can not laugh young chat, may have no income for a year!
Sure enough, a year without any income, but also lost more than a hundred thousand…
However, they worked together and gradually developed a sense of teamwork. They also recruited many part-time jobs to help them, and finally got on the right track after a year.
So I feel really lucky!
I met a good friend and entrepreneurial partner, and I also chose a track I was good at, gradually gaining a little influence in this field.
13 The luck thing
You see, looking through my entire experience, can you see how lucky I am to have a few key points in my life?
When I was a child, I met many dangers and was lucky not to hang up and survive. Although junior high school and a lot of small bullies what to play together, but the third year of the cliff reined in high school.
According to the truth, I can’t go to college in that way. I didn’t want to meet a free English teacher who taught me English for free. The unexpected score was on the second line.
Fortunately, although I failed the first time, I was admitted to the second time and became an undergraduate.
Although the university was cheated by brothers, but also found the way to make money university; Failure to find a job after graduation prompted me to go into programming.
Then I met several excellent leaders in Beijing, and I became the VICE president of R&D in 6 years.
And because I accidentally wrote a blog in my work, I can do freelance work now. My good friend Coincidentally also quit, and I just started a business together.
Overall recall, really is too lucky!
These things didn’t seem to matter at the time, but now they seem to matter. Life may be such that the things that really affect your destiny are the choices that seem small at the time.
If I could share one thing with you: keep optimistic and generous, and luck will follow you wherever you go. * * * *
**** share more lucky, more grateful more lucky; Life is like a play, all depends on luck!
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