“This is the sixth day of my participation in the Gwen Challenge.

An unexpected meeting of books

Be a guest in younger sister’s home yesterday, see on sofa have a “I love to ask lian Yue of young question and answer”, really let a person accident. Because of this book, I wanted to buy it, but my wife went ahead and bought it herself, not thinking that my sister also bought this book. It’s like we’re all in this together.

The public number of Lian Yue has seen for many years, it is one of the public number that affects oneself quite big. This book, too, has just come out.

The reason why I want to read it is that the contents of the book will remind people of the “beauty” of their youth. These “good” for these questions of the teenagers, may indeed be very big trouble.

  • For example, how to maintain friendship
  • For example, what if I fell in love with a girl in my class
  • Like how to get along with mom at home
  • For example, what if my grades went down
  • For example, the college entrance examination is stressful…

But for those of us who have grown up to bear the burden of our families, this is a young Werther’s trouble.

Experienced ups and downs of adults, the trouble that sees these children passes lian Yue cool breeze drizzle after answer, of knowing smile. This trouble is our lost youth.

The ability to settle

When I was playing with my sister’s baby, I read the second article of the book, From Posture to Ritual to Ability, as if I had been struck by lightning. Good writing has the power to make people feel ashamed or reflective. If at the beginning of the young of their own is so determined, so no distractions, that now their own how scattered, so undisciplined.

Here are some of the more impressive excerpts from the book:

In the mind pose, I emphasize the head again and again, because if you don’t pay attention to the hand, it will interpret the “uncertainty” in the hand as movement, and then induce more uncertainty. From time to time you play with a pen, scratch your head, touch your eyes, pick your nose, and your thought process is constantly slightly interrupted, until the interruptions build up to a point where it breaks down and you lose focus.

There are plenty of adults who are more distressed than you, who don’t have hard standards like student assignments and tests, glancing here and there, wandering randomly through the flood of information on social media, doing nothing, gaining nothing, and falling asleep late at night in shame. Wake up the next morning and repeat yesterday’s indulgent “uncertainty”

It’s a razor blade that easily cuts through his own disorganized image. If just throw out a problem, that still is not enough, connect yue also gave his reference solution way.

Every morning before I go to work, I have a ritual of reading a poem, then a few pages of my favorite Chinese book, and finally a few pages of my favorite English book, which takes about 15 minutes. Then start writing until the article is pushed to your phone. When you are tired of writing, get up and take a walk, do a few push-ups, but don’t let any other information disturb you. Don’t look at moments, don’t look at the news, don’t look at one glance, it seems that there are two eyes, the brain unconsciously have emotions and ideas…

Lian Yue, as an Internet producer, has been providing articles on public accounts for ten years. However, through fixed rituals and deliberate training, he has kept away from the Internet and maintained his efficiency and concentration. It is really surprising.

It forced me to reflect that I wasted too much attention on social media and grew too slowly. Heart does not know, why study deeply.

The ancients said that we should keep alert through this external input, thanks to Lian Yue. But it’s more important to stay focused and grow into a better version of yourself.