Just want to write something
Unconsciously I am about to enter the age of 30, in the middle age of many people, sometimes I have been thinking about what I have done in these years and what I have left behind.
Step into society
graduation
In July 2015, I graduated from a second university (software engineering) that more than 90% of the students did not know. By virtue of self-learning Android technology, I found a job in Beijing with a monthly salary of 7000 yuan. At that time, I was actually not bad.
Graduation of time, a few students to drag a lot of luggage, get on the train to Beijing, even school quilt to throw at the time, after the rush to find a house, a 1000 yuan rent, everything, ready to go to work happily, welcome the new life after graduation.
social
Yes is the black intermediary, do not know how many in Beijing rental partners encountered this problem, I was renting more than 1000 houses, bet two to pay three, plus utilities, network fees, a total of chaotic is about 7000 yuan. (that is about all of my internship wages) polish the surface of the house and move in after found the problem comes, no hot water, air conditioning not make, originally thought to find intermediary, repaired the results you should have guessed, a variety of push to take off, all sorts of chaos, from time to time there are a few light arm around the big fellow to rent the house.
After living for a month, I moved away without getting my money back. Because I really had no money to rent a house, I found my classmates to share a bed for half a year. Now I really appreciate them. (At that time, there was a big sister living next door. She was impressed and called the police several times. Since there was no conflict, the police could not solve the problem.
Young us
work
After entering the company, I was mainly engaged in business development, drawing interface, request interface and Bug correction. (To be honest, Android includes Java backend development, and I think the business layer code is too simple to deserve such a high salary)
May be your own work to do better, may also be a good leader, work first year had two pay, wages, arrived in 13000, although the salary with some platform exposure now look at me this is Tony, but I was very satisfied, I always feel that people should follow their ratio, also want to correct positioning themselves. Behind is mainly responsible for the company’s project framework, performance optimization of some work, specific details will not be described, anyway, too mixed or good, of course, they are also very hard, often work overtime to eleven twelve.
life
Young we have to have a young life, I am not a programmer in the impression of the image, I talk a lot, also love to play, non-working time basically will not stay at home. At that time in Beijing there were a few very good friends, occasionally drink, brag, chew the fat. (In college, I learned that you can really practice alcohol.)
At that time, I was really flying myself, bars, KTV, Internet cafes, board games, chess and cards, washing feet and massage all proficient, in retrospect, I really did not pursue at that time, life should be more to pursue some meaningful things.
Closer, closer, closer
leave
In 2018 with the family’s talk and discuss, has made the left Beijing, to go to hangzhou decision (I’m from zhejiang), in fact, the reason is really very simple, is too difficult in Beijing, mix up, stick to it could mix a personal kind, but at the time also does not have the registered permanent residence and high and prices it is difficult to persuade me in Beijing.
When I left Beijing, I talked with the leader for many times and tried to retain him for many times, including a raise. Now I think it would have been better if I had persisted for another year and worked as a team leader before going to Hangzhou.
start
Coming to Hangzhou is really a new beginning for me. I have no friends here, so I hurried to find a house and a job and started a new round of working life.
Here have a new experience, that is, poor management of the company, was in a hurry to find a new retail related Internet company, it is a tradition of the listed company’s subsidiary, is used to test the waters of the Internet industry, actually also is not a small company, first entry has more than 100 people, gradually felt the company behind not line, and then begin to send out pay, Only the first month is the normal salary, behind are arrears (is in financing, the money will be paid as soon as the account), followed the company and carried for a few months, finally there is no way to prepare for the interview, and then job.
Although I changed my job, I didn’t get my previous salary. Then I called 12345. After about half a month, all the overdue wages were received. (It is said that professional managers run away with the money, then fail to raise funds, and finally the listed company takes the money to pay the employees’ salaries and then dissolves the company.)
New company is a small company, but also from the common business development, at that time my salary is 18 k, followed by the eldest brother is doing, during the period of growth, companies can also, slowly along with the personnel changes and its powerful, duty is now turned to management, staff also brought a few younger brother, now my salary is about 30 k, There are also options that may never vest.
transition
marriage
It is their own things, no feelings line, in fact I the feelings of the line has been around forever also very smoothly, the girlfriend also is now the wife, is a university graduate students together, here also very grateful to her, followed me all the way to go to Beijing, and came to hangzhou this completely strange place, she is always silent support behind me, encouraged me.
In 2019, we held our wedding in Hangzhou, which was also a great event in our life. We were really happy during those days, and many relatives and friends came from afar.
upgrade
What is after marriage, is firewood, rice, oil and salt, is the child, now I have been upgraded to father. Only after experiencing this can you realize how hard mom really is. A lot of things we took for granted before, in fact, are the mother behind silently pay.
A child is really a magical existence, which makes you love and hate at the same time. It is because of his appearance that I often think about how I can give him a better environment and make him grow up better.
A long way to go
Most of the time some of our thinking is useless, the important thing is to move, for example, I used to think about how to make the children, make the wife happier, give them better things. In fact, one answer in my mind is to become more powerful. Only when we are strong can we reach another height and have the ability to change the status quo.
30 years old,
**30 is the age when it’s too late, and it’s important to know where we’re going.
In the future, I will pick up my blog again, maybe sharing some technology, maybe some thoughts on life, in short, I want to leave something behind.
In the future, I plan to change a new environment and want to see what a big company is like. Wanted to work with the bulls.
I should be a different me in the future.
At the age of 35, I hope I can have more wealth, haha, yes, more money, I am a very vulgar person, my life path is very popular, my thoughts are also very vulgar, is to earn more money, live a better life. I only think about benefiting society and changing society when I have enough to eat and drink, have no money to spend and have nothing to do.