No matter what blows life throws at you, we all have to try to live.
Because live in the present moment, so that you don’t play games, thinking about tomorrow’s work.
Anyway, as long as life doesn’t beat you, it wins.
Last Friday, I went to the customer site and sat in the debugging room to debug the product. During this time, such a dialogue happened, which made me think for a long time. I will give you a brief summary of the story: 1. I was moved and chose them. 2, there are a lot of problems during the decoration, after pointing out that they are reluctant to rectify, or give you muddiness, in short, I feel uncomfortable. 3, at the end of the paragraph, the contractor repeated the same trick, the customer felt that it was not easy, conscience can not live, then settle the final payment. 4, after the decoration did not long, found that the ceiling fell off, asked the contractor to rework, the contractor changed his face, and scold and complain. The client does not have method can look for decorate a company only, decorate a company finally with detain deposit for, contractor promises rework. The customer can not think, why I treat you so good, so understand you, you do so to me.
First of all, in my opinion, neither side is at fault. It just so happens that the two worlds have to work together for a period of time, and during this period of time, the two sides have some differences due to their existing perceptions and values.
The client is a mother with a child. Her job is to write code in the workplace. It’s very simple. The contractor went out to work since childhood, when he was a teenager to mix society, slope climb roll beat all the way into today with the team to do the project.
The contractor’s purpose is pure: to make money. There e are so many people below him to support, now a carpenter in Shanghai, a day is 500+ to calculate (don’t say you want to move bricks. You can’t really afford it.) He’s just making money his way.
From our point of view, he is “morally corrupt”, “conscience eaten by X”, “good or bad”, etc., but when you think about it, none of them are illegal. He is still doing one thing “set information gap”.
If you understand the road of decoration, the contractor to buy you the material will not cover you, the decoration company also can not earn your money, and the contractor collocation and the hardware store owner also can not hair your wealth.
It is because we do not understand, so we need to find a professional person to do things, professional people in this matter showed his professional knowledge, along with some “private goods”. And we often expect others to do their best to help us do things, do not go wrong.
Think about it this way: when you’re writing code, are you working 8 hours a day? Are they all writing? Is the workload up to 50%?
If I get paid by the company/boss, I have to finish 8 hours of work. If the boss knows about my workload, he can scold you for not doing his job, deduct your salary and give you KPI. At this time we will blame the boss, “I do my best to do things for you, I have no desire, do not fight not rob, why do you deduct my salary.”
After such a transposition thinking, is not the heart feel better. As for the lady who later said, “We are too honest to understand anything, too good conscience, they cheated us”, she did not confirm or deny……
Society is a real brush, can brush you bright, clean brush. Society is also a big dye VAT, can dye you green, red. Why do some people brush bright, but also dyed red? Reversed transmission. It’s often said that no one’s life is easy, and if you think it is, someone is carrying a heavy load for you.
I am such a person, but I never complain about anything, because it is useless to complain, no one will give me money, no one will help me. Why is that? Because who’s going to help someone who’s always complaining about grievances and hasn’t even thought about how to change them?
Waiting to be fed? It’s not that you can’t, it’s just how good is it when someone feeds you? Enough is enough. If you want good food, you’re on your own. Later experience made me realize how much fun it is to be altruistic. Elder brother Zhang and elder brother Yong are telling the good of altruism with personal experience.
In order to give back to the readers and give them a real benefit, I asked some friends for some internal tickets that you can’t get outside. Last week, I took some 699 tickets to IBM AI Summer Camp and gave them to several readers. After the meeting, readers sent me a long piece of feedback. I was really happy to be able to start helping people.
In other words, such earnest and attentive readers, I believe that one day I can achieve what I want.
I can’t help but add another point here: Look beyond the money in front of you.
Why do you want to say this thing? Because when I brought benefits to readers, I got some tickets to the big factory conference and some high temperature subsidies, and readers all rushed to sign up. I’ve been doing this for a few months now, and the readers who have participated in it have formed a crowd of 100.
But a recent event made me a little… It’s simple. I give out bonus stickers and people sign up. One reader added me to wechat and asked me how much it cost and how to get it. I said when it’s over, the sponsor will give it to me, and I’ll give it to everyone. Regular readers know me. And then he asked me… How can I trust you to give me…
“If you don’t believe me, just leave. There are people waiting in line behind you.” But now it is changed a lot, but also thanks to those who usually give me advice or two friends. I replied, “I’m not bad at that… Promised of a cent not a few, you can screenshots hair group in “and then sent a few red envelope figure, this just let him letter me.
I said these red envelopes have been sent out… I still need your 100…
So what does this mean? Are programmers, since the attention to me, I want to give you dredge dredge, don’t think about the money at the moment, really not much. You see you earn ten thousand dollars a month, good even on 20, 30 dollars, 100 dollars can not buy a loss is not.
But it’s easy to get into knots when you think about things that way. To do something, your thinking becomes, “How much does it cost? In fact, time is wasted on a small cost, the real cost of time is not considered at all.
If I only focus on immediate interests, I can hardly imagine how to seize an opportunity in the next five years. Often after the explosion of opportunities, today is losing, or not making money. If the current is quick to return money, that in most cases, the room for growth is not particularly large.
Well, today more nonsense, to sum up for everyone: 1, to get used to the society, to learn to upgrade. 2. Do more altruistic things, and you may reap unexpected rewards while feeling happy. 3. Take a broader view than the money in front of you.
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