“Live up to the time, the creation of non-stop, this article is participating in 2021 year-end summary essay competition”

preface

Nice to meet you

Soon New Year’s day, this year and the past, time flies ah. Out of work for a few years, recall the past few years how? Suddenly, I thought I’d write something to remember the past and applaud the past few years.

In the past few years, there have been a lot of joy, a lot of unforgettable moments, and a lot of big life events that made me happy and worried. Of course, IN the past few years, I have also been taking on various challenges. It has not been easy.

A few moments of regret

1, want to deposit 100W, found the difference 98W, although this is a joke, but from a person’s expenses to the expenses of a family, the transformation of the result is the wallet is indeed deflated, ha ha ha, so my 980,000 you go to which 😂

Lose weight, milk tea barbecue with hot pot, he is too sweet, ok? This year is full of work, work late hungry reward yourself a snack, weekend to improve life is another meal, friends dinner that delicious can not miss it. Now look back at my previous photos, can not bear to look back ah, the years of this pig knife, no mercy to me.

All the regret in the heart, is not adhere to it, I hemp. From this regret, LET me recall some of my unforgettable events of the past few years.

That year the old driver finally got a car

Unlike a lot of people who come to the big city to work, I’m not that rational. Although the truth tells me that buying a house before buying a car, the collateral cost of a car in a big city is really big, and the traffic in big cities is very convenient, so it is impossible to use the car. I still resolutely bought the car, this is really my stubborn.

I like cars, because there is a delivery car at home, usually have nothing to do with the adults behind touch two, watching adults play the steering wheel that slip, in my eyes that is the coolest thing in the world. So I have always dreamed of having a car of my own and have a strong desire to drive. So the first big thing I want to do is to buy a car. After a lot of trials and tribulations, I finally managed to scrape together the down payment and took out a loan to buy a mobility scooter:

After buying a new car, it did bring me some troubles, illegal parking, looking for parking space, parking in the city village was scratched paint, and empty pocket after paying off the car loan. But happy is bigger than trouble, I like the feeling of having a car, like its company, probably most boys will have my idea.

On weekends, I drive around with my friends:

Go to nanshan to pick lychee, go to dongxi chung through, go to Qingyuan rafting, go to climb Wutong Mountain, laugh at the stupid driver on the road ha ha ha ha ha, that time is very happy, the day passed quickly.

I had a girlfriend that year

All the encounters are not replicable fate, we are the same. Our meeting made me believe in fate. We started the company around the same time, I started first and she came in after me. Actually, I heard about her before she came, and people in the office were talking about it, and the company hired a very good girl, so expectations were high from the beginning.

Finally came to work, we are quite far apart, but unexpectedly she came the next day to change the office, so we are very close again. I was in charge of ordering our group’s benefit dinner. Coincidentally, she is a very strange person, not every time, but every time work late overtime, the original is a very irregular girl. Later, I took the initiative to ask him why he did not order food, I forget what she said, but I know he and I are from the same school, his brother and I do not ask how I do, I just asked. The back through her play good colleagues, plus her wechat. Then there is a colleague of our common hold good friend to leave his post concurrently, my elder brothers made an appointment with me and her at the same time, one come and go, I see opportunity to come 😄.

That time the company has a section of road near the construction, she came off work relatively late, I rode a bicycle around a circle, far observation, thinking that if there is any danger can also save the United States 😂. She would talk to her mother on the phone after work, and found that she was not only responsible for her work, but also kind to her family.

She lives there are a lot of delicious food, and then she and her work to meet for dinner. Then in the morning, we almost checked in, and I found that she didn’t bring breakfast, so I bought two breakfasts in a very high-profile way, and put them on her desk while colleagues were watching, and I was very happy. I’m glad she finished my breakfast. My persistence paid off and I was happy to see her eat breakfast and dinner every day.

But to be honest, I still didn’t have the courage to say it. Seeing that she seemed to have friends out every weekend, I was worried that someone else would beat her to it. When she went to see Xie Chunhua’s concert in Poly Theater, she turned off her cell phone in advance and could not be reached. It was raining that day, so I waited outside the theater for more than 2 hours. I ended up treating her to a hamburger. When my friends asked me about my progress, I said please eat hamburger, wear slippers, wait in the rain for 2 hours, my friends thought I wanted to cool off. Ah, thought to care, the next day to see her or I sent breakfast, I am very happy ah, thinking: well, there is hope.

Next to Tanabata, focus on preparing my confession scene. Finally, of course, the confession was successful. Afterwards I asked her what she cared most about me. She said THAT I am very real, I present a sunny, smiling, positive and optimistic state. From the beginning of my relationship with her, I decided that if there was no principle, I wanted us to be together for a long time. Every day went by so quickly that we treasured the time we had with each other.

Four, we got married

The previous section seems a bit long, but still not enough. We didn’t date for 10 years, or 5 years, or 3 years. After a year and a half, we met our parents, who had high expectations for us and gave us enough spiritual and material support. With the blessings of family and friends, we got the license.

Don’t know marriage registration can play so many tricks, I only remember click a few seconds, 60 dollars did not, did not give us P a bit, although very natural pollution-free, but still can not cover up our happiness fat. Looking back at those photos now, compared to the airbrushed wedding photos, it seems that this wedding registration photo is really worth remembering:

We thought we could put the wedding on the agenda right away, but we delayed it for a year because of the pandemic. At the wedding, her father walked slowly to me, holding her hand, tears welling up in his eyes. Her father put our hands together and told me to be good to his daughter. When we took care of each other, I couldn’t help feeling personal. I thought that someday my sister would go through the same situation.

At the wedding, I was honored to invite my high school class teacher and classmates, as well as my good friends. But at the same time, I still felt sorry for neglecting my brothers and my teacher. Because the hometown do wedding, pay attention to the etiquette and etiquette more, we are busy, did not take care of the place, my fault. Like everyone’s wishes, we had a very memorable and happy marriage.

On second thought, we were quite brave. We conducted the whole process remotely without going on field trips. We communicated online by ourselves, including hotels, restaurants and wedding dresses. Catch a lively National Day, but also hope that we can try to do our witness. The ideal is full, but the reality is still quite skeletal, this period is extremely busy, extremely chaotic, and extremely hurried. Thank you so much, my friends! The final group photo brings the wedding to a happy end:

I was so excited to open a red envelope at home, and I felt grateful for all the money we had prepared. In general, the wedding ceremony sense is still very in place, formally we are not the best, but the feeling in place, a lifetime of memories, a lifetime of unforgettable moments. Remind is about to get married friends, really want to 1 year plan to get married early, must visit hotel and restaurant, early booking hotel, compact saloon not too, we are together in the National Day this season, due to late, lounge too compact, effect is not so perfect, shows it is a small mistake.

Five, we bought a house

Our goal is still quite clear, because the house space in my hometown is ok, so I did not consider buying a house in my hometown, coupled with long-term rhinitis, guangdong side of the climate is more suitable for me. However, guangdong’s first-tier big cities are not so friendly to us migrant workers. To put it plainly, even if the first-tier houses have put together a down payment, the loan pressure will seriously affect our quality of life. Finally, we bought a three-bedroom in a nearby city and decided to settle down in the warm South, which was fine.

I decided to buy a house first. I want to see my family around me when I am tired of working, so that I will be motivated. Many of my friends have also bought houses and settled down there. I am even more delighted. I can often walk around in the future. We’re hoping to pick up the old folks and take them out on weekends. Because I see the loneliness of grandparents, I will think about how I can make my family not lonely. I can do very little for grandparents, but we can still fight for them. Because the nature of my daughter-in-law and I are busy, we chose the hardcover type, but in fact to live comfortably, reasonable layout, where is comparable to their own people planning layout ah. Have time or family understand this line, certainly choose rough good, hardbound chicken ribs you know.

Regret buying a house? No regret, although we did buy at the peak of the housing price, but based on our own needs, it doesn’t matter whether the housing price rises or falls if we don’t invest, we can make our home comfortable, it is convenient for our family to buy things, and the surrounding facilities and services are perfect, which is quite comfortable. There is a light for me, light is warm. I hope that no matter whether you rent or buy a house, no matter where you buy a house, you can have a happy family.

The present me

2021 was the most memorable year of my life. I thought about it a lot, and of course I had to sacrifice a few locks of hair. I really felt the meaning given to my identity and role.

To my parents, I am his son. As a son, I am most worried about her physical condition. Although I keep in touch with her every week, I really can’t make sure that they say ok to me, don’t worry… Is it true. I wish we could spend more time with them when we get home, taking them for regular checkups.

As for my daughter-in-law, I understand her hardships for me better than before. I will be in her hard time, do everything she did for me. I wish I could understand her weakness, take care of her, protect her.

For the child, I do is the least in place, compared with the child’s mother, I lack too much. I owe so much more than the old man who took care of the children. But what moved me most was the smile of the child. His father did not always appear in his life, but as long as he saw his father and mother, he was very happy. His smile was very sweet, with deep dimples, and it was very healing:

Raise not to teach, father’s fault! Pick him up next year when all the hassles are settled. Dads still play an important role in their children’s development. I hope he grows up happily.

Now I have more sense of responsibility, thinking about how to make money every day, improve the quality of life and happiness of my family, let them live carefree life. For work, this year I deserve to hit the title of workers, real workers. For us developers, if we want to make more money, we have to work hard to improve our skills. If you’re skilled enough, you’re not afraid to get the money. So this year, my focus has been on technical improvement.

Over the course of the year

1. I participated in the creation of technical articles and became a practitioner from a bystander:

I created 20 original articles at Nuggets, got 1839 likes, 719 favorites, and helped 5.4,000 developers

I also received a nice gift from Digg, thank you 😜 :

2. At work, I constantly accept new challenges and difficult tasks to make myself grow quickly

If I only satisfy the development of existing business, my growth will be very slow. I will carefully study any new needs in the work, which is not only the need of a job, but also the need to improve my core value, or it is caused by the sense of crisis. In short, I will keep input and output, which is the most fulfilling part of my work.

As mentioned in the previous article: In the second half of the year, I took over all the business of a colleague and supported the business expansion of the company better through my own efforts. At the same time, what I have done has been recognized by everyone. I am very happy to be named as the star of the quarter. Thank you for your support and encouragement.

3. In the second half of the year, I completed the promotion through my own efforts

In my opinion, many things complement each other. Through this promotion, on the one hand, I have made full preparation, on the other hand, I also benefit from doing technical article creation. At ordinary times, I will share my articles with the team to enhance my influence. Insist on hands-on code about learning experience, thinking and technical ability has been a certain exercise, feel very full very good. I hope we can share what we have learned and thought together.

Write to the present moment

Soon to say goodbye to 2021, 2022 life will open a new page, a New Year, a New Year, let us do not settle, live up to, live out their own wonderful

8. Looking ahead to my 2022

The New Year, life will have many new changes, the most happy thing is adults and children live together. In 2021, the utilization rate of weekends is not so high. I hope that in the New Year, I can spare time to cook meals and do housework together to create a clean, neat and comfortable environment. Plan to take the family out on weekends, and occasionally climb mountains together to stretch out

In the New Year, there will be a lot of changes in work. The most happy thing is to go to and from work happily and share and communicate with everyone. I will continue to write technical articles, learn and study new technologies and frameworks, and help everyone grow up together while improving myself.

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