What is the sign that a man begins to fail?

Some say it is idle, all day gnawing old; Some people say that addicted to games, bedridden; But have you ever thought, perhaps the next person to fail, just seems to be diligent and busy you.

One, being stuck in your comfort zone and making ineffective efforts every day

A few nights ago, I got a call from an old friend in the middle of the night. A man in his 30s was squatting in his dark garage, crying.

It was his first day out of work. He ate breakfast made by his wife in the morning, dropped the kids off at school, pretended to go to work, and just sat in the park all day. When I came back in the evening, I looked at the light in the window, thought about the mortgage of 3 million yuan on my back, the tuition fee of my children, the alimony of my parents, the adult of 1.8 meters, and cried like a wronged child.

He asked, “I work so hard every day, how can I just be unemployed?”


It hurts to tell him the answer: Because you’ve been in your comfort zone too long.

I don’t know how many people, like my friend here, have to work overtime every day from morning till night, doing useless efforts without renewal.

When you feel that your work is consuming you too much, when you feel the pressure from other people and other emerging industries, you are still addicted to the past glory or surrender to the security of the present, unwilling to make any changes.

Every late night when a new person is outpacing you and you can’t sleep, you tell yourself: It’s time to update but you’re still there the next day.

Remembering zhang Quanling’s words, she said: “When this era abandoned you, even a goodbye will not say.”

In this day and age, no one can keep their ears shut. Because it’s not just someone else’s story, but your familiar territory is changing. If the ship fails to keep up with The Times, it will be crushed mercilessly.

People say gorgeous turn around, in fact, turn around is not gorgeous, but also very painful. But this pain, not Wang Xiaobo said “to the anger of incompetence”, but precisely, is breaking through the comfort zone, the new birth.

Two, unnecessary delay

I know a young programmer. Every time I check his moments, I see pictures of him working in the wee hours of the morning. At the beginning, I thought she was very diligent, but it was strange that she didn’t have to work overtime to finish this work, right?

Ask just know, this is a severe procrastination patient, commonly known as lazy.

Every day before work must first play half an hour of the game, get up to eat something, then watch a play, suddenly a little sleepy first rest, there are a few hours must be finished, as well as play will be…


She also told me: “Procrastinating until the last half hour is very efficient, so I even earned it.”

Is it really so? He had to sleep until noon the next day and was in a bad mood. Instead, it’s those of us who meet deadlines and are disciplined enough to have time to refresh ourselves while maintaining a sense of order in our lives.

Many people have asked, how do you overcome procrastination?

One of my favorite quotes from Hessenberg is that if a task is making you anxious, the best way to get rid of it is to just do it, leave it at that, just push it, push it, push it, push it, push it, push it, push it, push it, push it, push it, push it.

Maybe while we’re doing it, hope comes.

Three, your time is worthless

Remember that writer Yitaro Matsuura divided time into three categories: wasted time, wasted time, Time to invest One of the reasons a person is wasted is to turn time that should be invested in getting better into spending time and wasting time.

Many people have no sense of time management and think that time is worthless.


This is like when you come to a crossroad, no matter where you want to go, you lift your feet and try your best to run, all the way moved by your own efforts, but you are running in the direction of the north, and your heart really want to go in the direction of the south, the direction is off, always can not reach the destination, can you not confused?

In many people’s minds, time is too cheap. So a lot of time can be wasted on the road, on ineffective communication, on unplanned behavior.

But people in this life, at most just how long. Once you waste your quota on worthless things, you have less time for yourself.

Remember, your time is always the most valuable.

Four, when you feel anxious and confused

When you feel anxious, when you feel depressed every day and see no hope, you must remind yourself that you may be sliding into the mire of life without realizing it.

Maybe it’s time for you to make some changes.

Because this era is like a driveway, and everyone is like a car.

Your execution is the gearbox, your ability to update is the engine, your circle of friends is the seat arrangement, and you need to make yourself the best configuration to go further.

When you feel lost, when you are in a quagmire, you need a systematic learning road map. Get out of and avoid the above dilemma. Make yourself a programmer with core competence.








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